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- Thread starter Mezzanine
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I agree with you guys but where am I gonna go? The only option I have come up with is to convince her to go along with this half-ass relationship for awhile, tell her to do whatever she wants and I could get a second job, start saving money and get out. I need to be here long enough to get money to move. I am waiting around because I dont have the money to leave and frankly I'm not sure if my credit is good enough to even rent my own place(I had an eviction years ago). I am really in a corner. She is getting more and more pissed the more I talk to her about deciding. She is like that, very stubborn and bratty. I think we all know she will choose the new asshole anyway. Seems like the illogical thing to do and that is right up her alley. Yeah the only good thing now is the sex...aside from that I am always nervous,scarred,cant sleep,cant think,feeling really hurt and abused. She is mad at me for all these little dumb things that I didn't have any control over. For instance; When we are grocery shopping I will tell her to get what she wants and she will instead get what I want to make me happy and then subsequently it makes her feel deprived and angry at me. It is nuts! I didn't ask for that! I told her to get WHAT SHE FUCKING WANTS! I am so angry right now. I wish I could pack my shit and get the fuck away from here. That is what I did last time, this time I really have no where to go.
Torch
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Scrape up as much money as you can. Look in to some type of room-mate service out there or find a room for rent. Go to the local college, you can usually find someone that is looking for a room-mate. Make the sacrifice and get out. If it works out that you guys stay together, so be it.
You have to make shit happen. I know you dont have much money but waiting around to get stepped on is not going to help. Get another job ASAP, this will help you start getting ahead and saving money while all this bullshit is going on. Tell that bitch you are not a Yo Yo or some rag doll that she can pull out of the closet when she feels better.
Why are you still bangin her if she still doesnt know what the fuck she wants? I know its hard not to if she is willing to lick your ass and all lol! but cut her off man. She might go somewhere else but this is just more reason for you not to be with someone that treats you that way.
You have been through this before with her. You broke up, she did some other dude. As far as I am concerned she already had her chance to figure out if she wanted to be with someone else. Now she is doing the same shit again.
I know you are in a Jam financially but you have to make it happen man......
Email me if you need to talk, I have been though similar shit.
You have to make shit happen. I know you dont have much money but waiting around to get stepped on is not going to help. Get another job ASAP, this will help you start getting ahead and saving money while all this bullshit is going on. Tell that bitch you are not a Yo Yo or some rag doll that she can pull out of the closet when she feels better.
Why are you still bangin her if she still doesnt know what the fuck she wants? I know its hard not to if she is willing to lick your ass and all lol! but cut her off man. She might go somewhere else but this is just more reason for you not to be with someone that treats you that way.
You have been through this before with her. You broke up, she did some other dude. As far as I am concerned she already had her chance to figure out if she wanted to be with someone else. Now she is doing the same shit again.
I know you are in a Jam financially but you have to make it happen man......
Email me if you need to talk, I have been though similar shit.
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