has your wife ever...

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Either way she aplogized and thats it thats what wife is supposed to do...she supposed to support her man even though she dont think its a good idea. And going off on a psycho rant and almost biting off my dik is something that i dont accept and she knew and apologized like the good wife she is.

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Except the part when she almost bit your dick off in a fit of rage lol

How old is she?

 

[nefertiti]

by telling her in advance, he's essentially asking for permission. and I don't see the need to ask for permission from my wife to do anything that doesn't effect my family. my wife is cool with it but what if she wasn't? am I supposed to just say "ok, I won't do it"? my usage doesn't affect my family.

I told my wife about gear after she found out about it and explained everything and luckily she was cool about it. basically, if it doesn't effect our relationship and family, don't be all in my shit. a little privacy is a good thing.

I'm not talking about that dude anymore. I'm talking about you.

It's not asking permission, it's being honest, as opposed to willfully deceitful. If she wasn't ok with it, your next steps would have been on you. Either don't do it, or do it anyway (hopefully after educating her and alleviated any misconceptions).

But I'm coming from a different place on this than most. I've had some really really horrific experiences with ongoing secrets within a family, and I can almost always tell when someone is being sneaky about something. Being secretive with me is one of the worst things a partner can do to me and my emotional well being. Little secrets, no biggie. But this kind of thing is a big secret - not because of the illegality or the health, but because it is ongoing. Specifically, with me, for someone to keep this a secret, they would have to be selfish as hell (because presumably they would know how destructive secrets are for me), and lack trust in my ability to be reasonable. They would be choosing the easy route to avoid a potentially uncomfortable conversation, knowing that choice would likely cause me hurt down the line.

But, that's just my perspective, my experiences.

 

[zwhit]

I'm not talking about that dude anymore. I'm talking about you.

It's not asking permission, it's being honest, as opposed to willfully deceitful. If she wasn't ok with it, your next steps would have been on you. Either don't do it, or do it anyway (hopefully after educating her and alleviated any misconceptions).

But I'm coming from a different place on this than most. I've had some really really horrific experiences with ongoing secrets within a family, and I can almost always tell when someone is being sneaky about something. Being secretive with me is one of the worst things a partner can do to me and my emotional well being. Little secrets, no biggie. But this kind of thing is a big secret - not because of the illegality or the health, but because it is ongoing. Specifically, with me, for someone to keep this a secret, they would have to be selfish as hell (because presumably they would know how destructive secrets are for me), and lack trust in my ability to be reasonable. They would be choosing the easy route to avoid a potentially uncomfortable conversation, knowing that choice would likely cause me hurt down the line.

But, that's just my perspective, my experiences.

hold up just a damn second!!

but seriously, I see where you're coming from. I just don't see gear being a big deal, for myself anyway. and people tend to overreact, like this guy's wife, when it's brought up. I don't expect my wife to tell me what she's doing at any given time, unless I ask. I give her the same respect.

 

[nefertiti]

hold up just a damn second!!

but seriously, I see where you're coming from. I just don't see gear being a big deal, for myself anyway. and people tend to overreact, like this guy's wife, when it's brought up. I don't expect my wife to tell me what she's doing at any given time, unless I ask. I give her the same respect.

It's not the gear that's a big deal (to me). Hell, one ex I even assisted with a few injections. It's the secrecy. I do not expect to know every single thing my S.O. is doing at any given moment either. But (to me), there's a huge difference between not detailing my every minute, and making a choice to inject something into my body regularly and choosing not to tell my partner about it. If I decided I wanted to explore the anti aging benefits of HGH, it would make me feel physically ill to keep that from someone I loved and lived with. Hiding it, sneaking injections while he was gone, having to be secretive about what I was spending money on...etc.

Again - just my perspective.

 

[ceo]

Too late, shes already proven to be psychotic

Comes with her being female. It just is.

 

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Comes with her being female. It just is.

I bet Velvett was never psychotic

 

[broscience]

Except the part when she almost bit your dick off in a fit of rage lol

How old is she?

She is 29

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[broscience]

Are you a fucking Persian bro?

I aint your bro

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[WoodyO]

Did you try to bite her clit off as payback?

 

[pdaddyII]

How is making a choice not to tell her not "intentionally" keeping secrets? That sounds like exactly what I'd call intentionally keeping secrets.

Don't even bother babe, he's a little dense.