Thanks everyone.  This has been my worst bday so I prolly won't be around for awhile.  On the way to work, I rcvd a call that my mom had a heart attack.  I've been at the hospital all day.  During the course of the day, her brain has been w/o oxygen for at least 20 minutes, and her heart stopped completely 4 times while I was there.  The dr's say be hopeful, but I'm being realistic now.  Hurting, but trying to stay strong.  It could be a few minutes, or a few hrs.  Keep me in your thoughts everyone.
Necia