Hairy Back

[HansNZ]

I think you should wait until you see where the relationship is going first. Find out if you like his personality before anything else. You can always try dropping a hint about how much you like smooth hairless skin when you're out on a "date". Hmm, hope that helps.

Well I wasn't planning on anything as big as a relationship.

In any case I suspect this guy is a closet case, so I doubt a relationship would be practical in any case.

I think he just wants to get his rocks off.

 

[jubei]

Oh, so you gay guys are players too. I didn't think you were the type. If he's a closet type you could tell him how you always hear women talking about how gross body hair is on guys. Or else you could be like hows my back look I just waxed it, then ask him what he does for his. When he says nothing mention how great his back would look if it were hairless. Also to take the emphasis off the hair issue, suggest a tan, and tell him how muscular his back is. Maybe that'll work.

 

[HansNZ]

Oh, so you gay guys are players too. I didn't think you were the type. If he's a closet type you could tell him how you always hear women talking about how gross body hair is on guys. Or else you could be like hows my back look I just waxed it, then ask him what he does for his. When he says nothing mention how great his back would look if it were hairless. Also to take the emphasis off the hair issue, suggest a tan, and tell him how muscular his back is. Maybe that'll work.

So much advice

There are lots of ways of dropping hints, but so many people are quite dense about these things - particularly men. If the guy hasn't been astute enough by now to notice that most people detest hairy backs, I doubt he's going to notice the hints.

I think I will give this one a miss. If he's going to keep being friendly, I shall reciprocate, but I am not going to inflict on myself the crops of thick black hair spreading across his back. I am not that desperate. *shudder* Yes, I am that superficial!

 

[Pamela]

Hans

Go in a round about way..

And say while you two are talking about what each other likes.
How you like how BB shave their entire body..
How it soooo smooth..

Maybe he may get the hint without coming right out and ask
if he will shave..

Just a try!!!

Or you can tell him how smooth your body is cause you shave..

 

[HansNZ]

Hans

Go in a round about way..

And say while you two are talking about what each other likes.
How you like how BB shave their entire body..
How it soooo smooth..

Maybe he may get the hint without coming right out and ask
if he will shave..

Just a try!!!

Or you can tell him how smooth your body is cause you shave..

LOL, thanks for the advice.

Actually I don't shave. I'm not a fan of shaved bodies. I am blond so my body hair is not pronounced. I have nothing against hair on arms, chest, etc. In fact it is quite appealing. But dark black hair growing in manes on a guy's back is just gross! He doesn't just have wisps of the stuff. It covers his shoulder blades and goes most of the way down his back. Yuk yuk yuk!

I am not THAT attracted to the guy. Too much effort methinks.

Thanks for your suggestions though

 

[jubei]

don't listen to pamela, she's a PM whore

 

[jubei]

Just kidding about Pam. Didn't mean any harm.