lol @ you being so defensive.
I know many Asian ladies who do quite well, and are not dependent on men. One Asian doctor friend of mine just got married (at age 38) to a guy who makes less than her. Of course another Asian doctor friend does make considerably less than her doctor husband. Overall though, I'd say they were raised to do well academically and be high achievers in their careers and life. Probably the reason they make better LTR/marriage material.
All the rest of the stuff in your post (the hundred year old ideas about Asians), I'm not really sure who or what you're referring to, but you got the part about gold digging Americans right. LOL!