Got any fuck buddies?.... How do you treat them outside of the bedroom?

[Big Rick Rock]

Hee hee

The trick is to flirt all the time. You'd be surprised at the results

Very true, just have to do it right so you come off like a slimeball...

 

[Forge]

I've never had a fuck buddy. I only get that far with women I really like, and it has always turned into something long term for me. If I don't have any feelings for her then I'm just not interested in sex with her.



I don't think I'm wired like most guys, the older I get the more I realize that I'm just different.

 

[jerseyart]

Very true, just have to do it right so you come off like a slimeball...

Thats less important than not trying at all

 

[awittyusername]

The reason why i ask is because I think I'm starting to fuck up.... I'm just nice to women for no goddam reason. When I'm fucking a chick I can't help but to be really nice them... I listen to their bullshit problems, fake interest and offer very obvious advice. I cook them dinner if they come over at night, I cook them breakfast the next morning if they stay over… I do my best to make them feel like there is a friendship aside from the sex, but I make sure we are clear on the fact that I have no intentions of only seeing one person right now.

I have been finding that these chicks want to spend more and more time with me on the phone… One of them this morning actually suggested a relationship and then got pissed/hurt when I told her that she knew the deal and I wasn’t about to change it… That same chick showed up to the Night Club on Saturday and got upset cause I was talking to some other chick… it is all very weird to me, I want to tell her to back off and be happy with what we have, but at the same time I don’t want her to get mad and stop seeing me… The choochie and head game is just unreal, I don’t want to lose this one.




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I have never been able to make fuck buddies work. You won't either BRR. You are too nice a guy. No matter how clear you make it, girls will always get attached.

In fact, alot of girls play the fuck buddy card to get there get their foot in the door for a relationship. Most girls expect you to cave into a relationship when they are serving up the sex Yes, it starts out as sex. before you know it you are getting hit with guilt from her, etc. Then, you are buying a ring. I have 2 friends that married their fuck buddys. Now, they are bitching bc they never get sex. lol

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I have never been able to make fuck buddies work. You won't either BRR. You are too nice a guy. No matter how clear you make it, girls will always get attached.

In fact, alot of girls play the fuck buddy card to get there get their foot in the door for a relationship. Most girls expect you to cave into a relationship when they are serving up the sex Yes, it starts out as sex. before you know it you are getting hit with guilt from her, etc. Then, you are buying a ring. I have 2 friends that married their fuck buddys. Now, they are bitching bc they never get sex. lol

So what you are telling me is I'm either going to have to give into a relationship or give up this amazing piece of poohn tahng... Fuck it I'll hit it till she decides to leave me, but I'll be damed if I let this chick shove a relationship down my throat!

 

[Forge]

So what you are telling me is I'm either going to have to give into a relationship or give up this amazing piece of poohn tahng... Fuck it I'll hit it till she decides to leave me, but I'll be damed if I let this chick shove a relationship down my throat!

And there it is, thats what's different about me. I want to be in a relationship whereas you openly reject even the slightest notion of one. If I was "seeing" a great girl who I really liked then I'd have no problem dating her and being exclusive, but you get upset at even the idea. I've never understood this fear of commitment that most guys have...

 

[Big Rick Rock]

And there it is, thats what's different about me. I want to be in a relationship whereas you openly reject even the slightest notion of one. If I was "seeing" a great girl who I really liked then I'd have no problem dating her and being exclusive, but you get upset at even the idea. I've never understood this fear of commitment that most guys have...

No fear of commitment here. I was married for a couple of years. I would welcome the chance at a relationship if the right woman came along... In the meanwhile I'm having some fun and not giving a fuck.

 

[biteme]

And there it is, thats what's different about me. I want to be in a relationship whereas you openly reject even the slightest notion of one. If I was "seeing" a great girl who I really liked then I'd have no problem dating her and being exclusive, but you get upset at even the idea. I've never understood this fear of commitment that most guys have...

That's because you are needy. I have many friends like you. Not that there's anything wrong with that except they usually go thru several lovers.

 

[awittyusername]

So what you are telling me is I'm either going to have to give into a relationship or give up this amazing piece of poohn tahng... Fuck it I'll hit it till she decides to leave me, but I'll be damed if I let this chick shove a relationship down my throat!

No fear of commitment here. I was married for a couple of years. I would welcome the chance at a relationship if the right woman came along... In the meanwhile I'm having some fun and not giving a fuck.

We need to make BRR last 2 posts stickys in the SWV forum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Bc this is how you are supposed to be!)

 

[RaZor Ramon]

I've never had a fuck buddy for more than a month or so. 2 or 3 is more like it. Any longer than that then the woman starts getting emotional attach like 99% of the time. It's just how women are. Usually it would end by then either on my end or her end or both.