hmmmm.... i am curious why someone would mention BMOM when she isnt even on this sight anymore?  i am not asking this to provoke, my intellegence level is too grand for that.  I mearly want to say that I have become close friends with her and know her "in person" and she is one of the smartest, most loyal and honest people I have ever met.  I am not biased in my thinking either, I am sincere and factual.  It pains me that she is brought up this way as you dont know the intense pain she has suffered and is suffering on a daily basis.  She is my friend and I love her.  
 
Please, for the sake of human sensitivety, think long and hard before you desecrate someones soul like this in a public forum.  Words ARE mightier than the sword;  Atleast with the sword you wont see the wake of suffering that occures in the onslought.  
 
Peace to all and be kind to our fellow human.