i dont know if im willing to beleive you girls here so far....example statement:" yeah , my SO is great and he has such a great personality and is so nice!, but that guy over there, makes me WET!!!"......
IMO, the guy that hits like a frieght train wins in the long run, you cannot play-off the fact that passion is what makes the world turn, and as i have said before, if you dont have passion, you'll go looking for it sooner or later.