Girls, what men's bodypart attracts you the most ???

[rex941]

Good point cyberflash

You make a good point, most men are pre-occupied with looks over other attributes, but I submit that your average male would be totally up front that he was mostly interested in what the chick looks like verses your average chick who would tell you she thinks "intelligence or personality" are the criteria she uses - while she's chasing after some pretty boy buff guy with zero brains and even less personality. Take a look around you at the many women you will see constantly complaining how their man treats them while they chase him all over the county as he continues to treat her like shit.

My sister-in-law is a perfect example. She's with this guy who is a total jerk, he abuses her, he abuses her children, he never holds a job longer than about two weeks and he drinks and uses drugs constantly - but will she leave him in search of a man with integrity, personality, or intelligence. No way. What kills me is that she is a great looking chick, with an excellent job and a great personallity.

P.S. Her ex was cut from the exact same mold as this a**hole.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I think Chris O'Donnell is super, sexy. Not only is he extremely beautiful, but he is very intelligent, and not a "show off". Nothing turns me off faster then a guy that knows hes all that and flaunts it. He is humble and kind of shy------I love that.

 

[Drifter]

Hmmm, last time I checked humble and shy doesn't get you very far. I'm not trying to dissagree with you Jen but I have seen the opposite way too often to even consider otherwise. You are a rare breed there Jen.

 

[Sassy69]

I am definitely a girl who likes my guy taller than me and with bigger bis than me LOL! The eye catcher for me is flat abs and that amazing point where the pelvic bone just sort of points d
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of course intelligence, a sense of humor, great eyes, a career and a car w/ air conditioning are pluses too..!

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Hmmm, last time I checked humble and shy doesn't get you very far. I'm not trying to dissagree with you Jen but I have seen the opposite way too often to even consider otherwise. You are a rare breed there Jen.

I know you probably hear that all the time, then watch the chicks run to the assholes.

Well, guess what? I really do like humble guys. I have had my share of cocky guys, and after I dated guys who actually LISTENED to me, and respected me, I was addicted. Guys that treat people in general with respect is very important to me.

When I'm on the first date, I watch really closly how my date treats the server, and it says alot about his personality.

Plus, when i'm talking if he is actually looking at me, and responding like he actually cares--oh yeah, that IS important to me. More important then looks. Not to diss my last boyfriend at ALL, but ok, he was a dork. But I loved his personality, and we had soooo much fun. Plus, he was and still is a virgin. Yep, and I dated him for almost 2 years. Sex/body/looks are not on the top of my list-----I guess I am a rare breed.

 

[Hannibal]

I guess I am a rare breed.

Rare indeed...definitely a good thing

 

[furious]

Calico--went to your website, congrats on the diet and workout. You look awesome.
Referring to the original topic...I saw a special on Discovery Channel (best channel there is) on beauty. Men have certain cones and rods in our eyes that picks out the image of a desirable woman in the crowd of thousands. This image is basically the same for all men, large breasts, slim waist, full hips.
Women do not have any genetic equipment to automatically pickout an ideal man. from what I understand, women try to place emotions and intelligence to man they find attractive. What is funny is that they try to do this by sight alone, which is a big folly.
My theory is this: Since women ( in general, of course) place so much emphasis on emotions and intelligence, I think THEY should be the ones who approach MEN. Make all our lives simpler. It ain't happening, I know, I know. Maybe in an alternate universe.......

 

[furious]

Hannibal

Awesome haikus, big man!

 

[tripleV]

Definitely a big upper body with a nice v-neck t-shirt that shows that pec definition, Yumm

 

[Longhorn85]

a will of iron

Jenn,

Did you say your last boyfriend dated you for 2 years with no sex? That is incredible. Was it a difficult thing for him? For you? I know it would have been impossible for me.

If you need someone to help you make up for lost time, you know how to reach me!