99.9% of the women out there wouldn't take the time to find out if the guy has a great personality or brains. They are into the visual thing, and if they tell you anything different it's just because they don't want to hurt your feelings. All I have is life experiences to back it up, but since I have been told I have a great personality, and I know I'm a very intelligent guy - if there were any chicks out there who thought those were the criteria by which to pick a man you'd think I'd have them all over me but that's simply not the case nor has it ever been. Women care about a nice body, and a fat wallet, and don't let anyone tell you any different.