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So anyway I was pissed off at her one day so I created a profile and used a picture of me and her but I cut out her face :chomp: wasn't really planning on doing anything just messin around. I started chatting with this hottie on the site and after about 10 minutes the chik said "busted brad its kristin (my girlfriend) talk about getting caought red handed. So now she doesn't beleive me that I had no intention of doing anything, what a sneaky bitch anyway. Do you guys/gals think she has reasons to be mad or should I be mad that she was being sneaky?
 
fergie said:
So anyway I was pissed off at her one day so I created a profile and used a picture of me and her but I cut out her face :chomp: wasn't really planning on doing anything just messin around. I started chatting with this hottie on the site and after about 10 minutes the chik said "busted brad its kristin (my girlfriend) talk about getting caought red handed. So now she doesn't beleive me that I had no intention of doing anything, what a sneaky bitch anyway. Do you guys/gals think she has reasons to be mad or should I be mad that she was being sneaky?
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That's soooooo geigh of her. I understand where she's comin from, but she has to have trust or else what ever you guys have is worthless.
 
ceasar989 said:
That's soooooo geigh of her. I understand where she's comin from, but she has to have trust or else what ever you guys have is worthless.
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thats what I thought
 
What made her suspect you were on a site? If it was a different chick, would you kept it at just chatting? Would you have told her that you were seeing someone?
 
nycgirl said:
What made her suspect you were on a site? If it was a different chick, would you kept it at just chatting? Would you have told her that you were seeing someone?
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I would have just chatted nothing more I had no intentions of meeting anyone else. I think she suspected me because she was going through my history on my pc when I wasn't around.
 
fergie said:
I would have just chatted nothing more I had no intentions of meeting anyone else. I think she suspected me because she was going through my history on my pc when I wasn't around.
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Well, she has trust issues.

Rumor has it the EF women are "very" friendly, you could have chatted with one of us and not got caught. :lmao:
 
fergie said:
I would have just chatted nothing more I had no intentions of meeting anyone else. I think she suspected me because she was going through my history on my pc when I wasn't around.
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This right here spells dumpage. Ask her if she'll introduce you to the hottie who's pic she posted.
 
ceasar989 said:
That's soooooo geigh of her. I understand where she's comin from, but she has to have trust or else what ever you guys have is worthless.
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Why is that "soooooo" gay of her? You talk about she has to have trust and this guy, regardless if he is joking or not has a profile on a dating service goes against all the trust values in the world.

I really don't get you guys sometimes, I really don't. Your logic is so fucking convoluted when you get caught, it makes a schizophrenic look like a rocket scientist.
 
BileStew said:
Why is that "soooooo" gay of her? You talk about she has to have trust and this guy, regardless if he is joking or not has a profile on a dating service goes against all the trust values in the world.

I really don't get you guys sometimes, I really don't. Your logic is so fucking convoluted when you get caught, it makes a schizophrenic look like a rocket scientist.
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I aggree, shouldn't have done it
 
nycgirl said:
Well, she has trust issues.

Rumor has it the EF women are "very" friendly, you could have chatted with one of us and not got caught. :lmao:
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I'll remember that for the next time I decide I wanna chat lol :p
 
fergie said:
I'll remember that for the next time I decide I wanna chat lol :p
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Well, except me. I'm the mean one.

So, what are you going to do to fix this? Are you going to deal with the issues that caused you create this profile? One does not create a profile on a dating site for no reason. You were looking for attention from another female. Why?
 
fergie said:
I aggree, shouldn't have done it
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Damn, I was expecting a "fuck you" type rebuttal. I'm all geared up to get into a flame war.

Glad to see you realized you did the wrong thing. Best of luck in your relationahip. if you really are into this chick, it's going to be a while before she starts to trust you again. Be patient.
 
fergie said:
dont you think shes a little guilty for being so sneaky
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Not at all. I'm a snoop myself. If I'm thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone, I wanna know what they're all about. Turnabout is fair play though.
 
nycgirl said:
Well, except me. I'm the mean one.

Sp, what are you going to do to fix this? Are you going to deal with the issues that caused to create this profile? One does not create a profile on a dating site for no reason. You were looking for attention from another female. Why?
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well she's really mad and actually dumped me yesterday but she wants to get together and chat tonight but the funny thing is she still lives at home and her parents know all about it so I'm gonna get some evil looks thats for sure.
I am a flirt plain and simple, I like to chat with other girls didn't want anything else Is this wrong of me?
 
nycgirl said:
Well, she has trust issues.

Rumor has it the EF women are "very" friendly, you could have chatted with one of us and not got caught. :lmao:
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pffff, and get said cock pics spread about like peanuts at a ballgame and then run out of town like a leper.
 
whe all is said and done this is now one of my funny stories I can tell to all of my friends, hopefully everything works out ok with my girlfriend but we'll see. I'll make sure to keep you guys informed as ususal.
 
fergie said:
well she's really mad and actually dumped me yesterday but she wants to get together and chat tonight but the funny thing is she still lives at home and her parents know all about it so I'm gonna get some evil looks thats for sure.
I am a flirt plain and simple, I like to chat with other girls didn't want anything else Is this wrong of me?
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No. I'm sure she is aware that you are a flirt. But, next time go to an AOL chat room, flirt on C&C, or something like that. People go to dating sites for potential dates and relationships. Not for innocent flirting & conversation. I can see where she would be like, WTF?

Be patient.
 
You know what the funny thing about this is, I had my suspicions it was her for some unknown reason but I though nah theres no way, boy was I wrong.
 
fergie said:
I'll be the first one to admit I was wrong but you wanna start name calling?
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I think the mood is light-hearted bor, it is pretty funny
 
HumanTarget said:
funny when dudes get owned by women who typically cannot open a door.
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:lmao:

Yes, whats up with this opening door shit. I got in an arguement with a chick at the gym about 20min ago about that shit.

You want to work and wear slacks...Open your own fucking car door.
 
awittyusername said:
:lmao:

Yes, whats up with this opening door shit. I got in an arguement with a chick at the gym about 20min ago about that shit.

You want to work and wear slacks...Open your own fucking car door.
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That's fucking awesome! ;) k for you
 
Saint V said:
Why not just turn it around on her since she had a profile on the site too. Accuse her of screwing around on you. The bitch.
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to be fair the only reason she had a profile was to catch me in the act so im thinking it would be hard to turn around, but thx anyway
 
oh and btw were back together now so I guess she wasn't that mad.... no wait, she was pritty mad but she'll get over it :verygood:
 
fergie said:
trying to bust me :Perk:
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Fergie, long time no speak!

I sometimes go onto dating sites as well. Generally out of total boredom. Like everyone else, we like to go into a fantasy about how somewhere out there there's the perfect place, the perfect house, the perfect job, the perfect neighbourhood, and...the perfect woman! We all know there isn't. However, its "refreshing" to read some of the dating agencies, especially Russian Women (hot!), and imagine just how perfect they would be.

Real life is nothing like that. Like me, you were just bored at that particular time, nothing else
 
fergie said:
So anyway I was pissed off at her one day so I created a profile and used a picture of me and her but I cut out her face :chomp: wasn't really planning on doing anything just messin around. I started chatting with this hottie on the site and after about 10 minutes the chik said "busted brad its kristin (my girlfriend) talk about getting caought red handed. So now she doesn't beleive me that I had no intention of doing anything, what a sneaky bitch anyway. Do you guys/gals think she has reasons to be mad or should I be mad that she was being sneaky?
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Karmmmaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!
 
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riverrock said:
Fergie, long time no speak!

I sometimes go onto dating sites as well. Generally out of total boredom. Like everyone else, we like to go into a fantasy about how somewhere out there there's the perfect place, the perfect house, the perfect job, the perfect neighbourhood, and...the perfect woman! We all know there isn't. However, its "refreshing" to read some of the dating agencies, especially Russian Women (hot!), and imagine just how perfect they would be.

Real life is nothing like that. Like me, you were just bored at that particular time, nothing else
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thats exactly it, if only she would realize that. Haven't seen you around rock where ya been?
 
awittyusername said:
:lmao:

Yes, whats up with this opening door shit. I got in an arguement with a chick at the gym about 20min ago about that shit.

You want to work and wear slacks...Open your own fucking car door.
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Exactly! If I ever noticed that a woman expected me to open a door for her, I'd slam it in her face. Sure, I'll open it if she happens to be right behind me but if she's walking beside or in front of me and steps to the side, I'd open the door just enough for me to fit in and shut it.
 
awittyusername said:
:lmao:

Yes, whats up with this opening door shit. I got in an arguement with a chick at the gym about 20min ago about that shit.

You want to work and wear slacks...Open your own fucking car door.
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I don't expect a man to do it ever I am capalbe with out a doubt but let me tell you when a guy does it very sweet. It happend to me last weekend he came around unlocked open and shut the door for me in his car that is some serious class a true gentalmen.

Fergie good to see she is forgiving you don't make the same mistake twice I wish I could give you gf karma for pwning your ass that was funny ;)
 
Well i for one think it is shitty. say you never did go to that site. she is still checking your history and shit. some women just look for shit like that almost like they want to catch you doing something wrong. Can you imagin the trouble men would be in if they could read our minds. I mean they freaky out when are are looking at porn on the computer. I mean shit what is the difference in thinking about porn or looking at it on the computer. The computer is just proff we are thinking about it. Does the computer make us think about it?? or is it the fact we are thinking about it already that wee look it up.

I just know i dont look up the history on my computer to see who my wife is talking too so I dont think she should be checking on me, to see what i have been doing, and then giving me her aproval. I get that too she saids I say what you were looking at on the compter. So what the fuck do i look like i care. I just dont like the idea of it at all.. Makes me think fuck it.. I might as well go ahead and do something wrong. I am getting acoused anyway..
 
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I agree there are trust issues there.

Fergie, did you ask her what made her go through your history? Has she done this before?
 
Extra_Strong said:
Well i for one think it is shitty. say you never did go to that site. she is still checking your history and shit. some women just look for shit like that almost like they want to catch you doing something wrong. Can you imagin the trouble men would be in if they could read our minds. I mean they freaky out when are are looking at porn on the computer. I mean shit what is the difference in thinking about porn or looking at it on the computer. The computer is just proff we are thinking about it. Does the computer make us think about it?? or is it the fact we are thinking about it already that wee look it up.

I just know i dont look up the history on my computer to see who my wife is talking too so I dont think she should be checking on me, to see what i have been doing, and then giving me her aproval. I get that too she saids I say what you were looking at on the compter. So what the fuck do i look like i care. I just dont like the idea of it at all.. Makes me think fuck it.. I might as well go ahead and do something wrong. I am getting acoused anyway..
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couldn't have said it better myself, now lets just hope she doesn't find my gear :p
 
Dude, how do you know that she was cruising your past History and not her friend on the dating sites stumbling across your profile? You did say that you had pictures of you up there with her but she was cut out of the shot.

I can see her checking your history now.
 
well your reap what you sew.... sorry you got caught bro but unless you were trying to find a couple to swing with its not understandable. if you werent including her in the search than she has every right to be upset. not saying she wouldnt get upset if you were trying to get her to swing without her knowledge but its not as bad as you looking and chatting with other females with the intention of dating. thats why you go to these sites. if you want a female to chat with, like do a lot and my wife is perfectly ok with it, then there is regular chat sites that you can go to. advertising on a dating site makes it look like you are looking to move on. my wife chats with guys all the time on the game site she plays games at. sometimes the chat turns sexual but i tell her just go with it but she has no intention of hooking up with them. thats trust.

if you break the trust in a relationship it will be burned into memory and NEVER forgotten. no matter how much you make up and get back together. she will never trust you the same way again.... be prepared to be snooped upon in whatever you do.
 
nycgirl said:
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I agree there are trust issues there.

Fergie, did you ask her what made her go through your history? Has she done this before?
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she said she accidentily clicked on it but I call bullshit she was snooping and I'm not sure if she's looked before but I used to have a password and she demanded to know what it was and I trusted her so I gave it to her, stupid trusting me.
 
BileStew said:
Dude, how do you know that she was cruising your past History and not her friend on the dating sites stumbling across your profile? You did say that you had pictures of you up there with her but she was cut out of the shot.

I can see her checking your history now.
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I saw her checking my history and the pic was a backstage pic so nobody could look without my concent and it just so happened that I picked her false identity which she created that very night, talk about bad luck.
 
fergie said:
So anyway I was pissed off at her one day so I created a profile and used a picture of me and her but I cut out her face :chomp: wasn't really planning on doing anything just messin around. I started chatting with this hottie on the site and after about 10 minutes the chik said "busted brad its kristin (my girlfriend) talk about getting caought red handed. So now she doesn't beleive me that I had no intention of doing anything, what a sneaky bitch anyway. Do you guys/gals think she has reasons to be mad or should I be mad that she was being sneaky?
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u fucked up for being so careless
 
fergie said:
she said she accidentily clicked on it but I call bullshit she was snooping and I'm not sure if she's looked before but I used to have a password and she demanded to know what it was and I trusted her so I gave it to her, stupid trusting me.
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Whoa, she demanded your password??

She accidentally click on a link for this website, found your profile (how did she do that?), and created a profile to trick you.

Doe she know you post on this site? I assume she is not aware of "certain" things.

Question: How is she?
 
nycgirl said:
Whoa, she demanded your password??

She accidentally click on a link for this website, found your profile (how did she do that?), and created a profile to trick you.

Doe she know you post on this site? I assume she is not aware of "certain" things.

Question: How is she?
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first she went through my history and saw that I went on then she created a dummy profile to try and catch me casuse I told I was just surfin and was only on there for a brief second, she is 23
 
velvett said:
Fergie, dude...

Seriously - delete this thread.
Trust me on this.

History is history and this site and this thread is in your history.
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the site only comes up on history, is there a way to delete one site on the history or do you have to delete them all? I'm guessing she will be suspicious if I delete the entire history all the time.
 
jack_schitt said:
Who's pic did SHE post?
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good point, one sh ould be wondering what the fuck SHE is doing on a dating site...and how did u not recognize ur gf's picture?

u shoulda been like "oh yeah, well i suspected you were on this site, so i was trying to trap you, you slut i cought you, now what bitch"
 
SublimeZM said:
good point, one sh ould be wondering what the fuck SHE is doing on a dating site...and how did u not recognize ur gf's picture?

u shoulda been like "oh yeah, well i suspected you were on this site, so i was trying to trap you, you slut i cought you, now what bitch"
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It was her friends pic that I've never met and the profile was just to catch me
 
fergie said:
the site only comes up on history, is there a way to delete one site on the history or do you have to delete them all? I'm guessing she will be suspicious if I delete the entire history all the time.
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Open your history, right click the site you want to delete you will get a mini window that will ask if you want to expand or delete OR collapse or delete. Choose delete.

I'm going to hell anyway - so I might as well help you out to cover your ass.
Now be GOOD!
:)
 
fergie said:
the site only comes up on history, is there a way to delete one site on the history or do you have to delete them all? I'm guessing she will be suspicious if I delete the entire history all the time.
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you have to delete them all. But just do that so she at least doesn't see THIS thread. go to view-privacy report-settings-general-clear history-(are u sure you want to clear history?) - say YES

or she'll read this too!

and OH if fergie's GF is reading this...you're stupid and sneaky! :evil:
 
mmm it does say the thread name and site in the history, this could come back to bite me in the ass lol. Oh well I guess I'll just keep deleting it
 
1_more_rep said:
you have to delete them all. But just do that so she at least doesn't see THIS thread. go to view-privacy report-settings-general-clear history-(are u sure you want to clear history?) - say YES

or she'll read this too!

and OH if fergie's GF is reading this...you're stupid and sneaky! :evil:
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You don't have to clear the whole history - you can hand pick them.
 
velvett said:
Open your history, right click the site you want to delete you will get a mini window that will ask if you want to expand or delete OR collapse or delete. Choose delete.

I'm going to hell anyway - so I might as well help you out to cover your ass.
Now be GOOD!
:)
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^ for 1 rep
 
dude ur GF sounds like a fucking bitch.

sure your an idiot for going on a dating site- just asking for trouble...

but if she pulls this shit now, immagine how much of an annoyance shes gunna be if you mrry her
 
velvett said:
You don't have to clear the whole history - you can hand pick them.
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you can also click on the history button to the right of the address bar with the arrow pointing down, there you cannot individually erase you must erase them all.
 
You could get another computer. That way you have two, one that is in the open for her to see, and one in the back of your closet, on top of the shelf, way in the back corner that you play on. ;)



I know a guy who did that with a motorcycle. His wife didn't want him to have one, but he bought one and kept it over at his friend's place. It worked until he fell and broke his leg. :worried:
 
exotic_island_girl said:
If you have a gf what are you doing joining a internet dating site at the first place. If you say that it is just for fun that's bolony.
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obviously you dont understand men to well but thats ok
 
fergie said:
obviously you dont understand men to well but thats ok
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Blah!

what is their to understand, a person lurking in the internet single dating site posting that his single but in reality he's in a relationship. Is obvious what's going on.


:rolleyes:
 
exotic_island_girl said:
If you have a gf what are you doing joining a internet dating site at the first place. If you say that it is just for fun that's bolony.
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i said the same thing. if you just want to chat with a woman thats fine. but there are plenty other regular sites for just chat. but a DATING site is specific for one reason, to find a person to DATE. do you think the woman there are just looking to chat? no... they are looking to hook up. i am a guy and yes i understand men....
 
fergie said:
you can also click on the history button to the right of the address bar with the arrow pointing down, there you cannot individually erase you must erase them all.
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no, the history button next to the favorites button
you should get a whole list of sites and actual visted pages

as for sites with screen names and log in's make sure you log out when you are done
 
when in doubt i whip it out
I got me a rock and roll band
It's a free-for-all
nananananananananananananannananannannannannannannannanannannannana!
 
exotic_island_girl said:
Blah!

what is their to understand, a person lurking in the internet single dating site posting that his single but in reality he's in a relationship. Is obvious what's going on.


:rolleyes:
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Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. :)
 
if you are in a relationship....... you should move way out away from all man kind so you cant see or talk to any other people. It should feel like prison.

but i have an idea that even if you would of played it safe she still would of been checking the history to see what you have been looking at.

I like to do what i want and not have to worry about covering my tracks worried about what it may look like.

thinking oh man i better cover that up cause she may think this or this.. fuck it
 
You shouldn't even bother having a gf if you're gonna still be hunting cyberpoon. She eventually won't put out so the steady sex will be gone along with any sort of foundation your relationship might've had...cut both your losses and move on.

My bad I didn't read all 5 pages.....you should sit down and have a chat with her about trust issues and get that shit straightened out....best of luck. :)
 
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fergie said:
So anyway I was pissed off at her one day so I created a profile and used a picture of me and her but I cut out her face :chomp: wasn't really planning on doing anything just messin around. I started chatting with this hottie on the site and after about 10 minutes the chik said "busted brad its kristin (my girlfriend) talk about getting caought red handed. So now she doesn't beleive me that I had no intention of doing anything, what a sneaky bitch anyway. Do you guys/gals think she has reasons to be mad or should I be mad that she was being sneaky?
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YOU GOT PWN3D!!!

:FRlol:

Seriously though, what was SHE doing on the site???
 
StickFigure said:
YOU GOT PWN3D!!!

:FRlol:

Seriously though, what was SHE doing on the site???
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did I ever lol, she was 'trying' to catch me in the act and did she ever but its all good were back together still its kinda funny though
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
You shouldn't even bother having a gf if you're gonna still be hunting cyberpoon. She eventually won't put out so the steady sex will be gone along with any sort of foundation your relationship might've had...cut both your losses and move on.

My bad I didn't read all 5 pages.....you should sit down and have a chat with her about trust issues and get that shit straightened out....best of luck. :)
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I agree with what he said.........
 
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