Girl coming over tonight, vote on which move I should make

[Raina]

Go out with her one more time and backhand her.

 

[Spanky11]

man - it is true you really do have little no game....

i think in this instance, you should meet her, explain that you like her, find out what the hang up etc etc etc.

if its still the same, then cut your losses

i would be working on another more slutty giril in the meantime though - always got to have a backup...

 

[SoKlueles]

and fyi i can skate just fine, even in motor oil

 

[alien amp pharm]

and fyi i can skate just fine, even in motor oil

Maybe with reinforced concrete under the ice you can.

 

[SoKlueles]

Maybe with reinforced concrete under the ice you can.

i really hope u never get laid again

 

[megamania500]

Thanks everybody and Goldendelicous.

After I asked if cuddling was moving too fast to her and she replied with she has to be into a guy blah blah blah, she said "but we can do that". So either she realized I was pissed or she realized she better do something because at that point I wasn't going to call her anymore.

After the movie she stayed around for a little while, which was good I guess. Then I walked her to her car. The sign I got was that she wanted to kiss, but me still being mad I simply gave her a hug and said bye.

I still don't know if I am calling her again. Perhaps one more time and I will be aggressive and make some moves regardless. As some of you said, what do I have to lose at this point.

Hell, man, let her call you next time. You already established with her that your interested in her. She probably expects you to call within a certain time period. And if you do just that, that tells her that she's got you figured out. By not doing what she expects you to, like calling for another date within a certain time frame, makes her start to wonder how much of a hold she's got on you. If you start placing doubts into her head like that, she just might start pursuing you, if she really does want to be with you. Sometimes a woman desires more something that she can't have, instead of something she can have easily. At this point you've shown her that your something that she can have easily.
And have you been tripping over yourself to please her whenever your with her? If so, you might be presenting yourself as a "nice guy". And everyone knows what that means. Because if you are, then she sees you as the type of guy that kisses her ass. And ain't no woman out there gonna respect a guy that kisses her ass. And women never have lustful desires for a man they don't respect.
Or go ahead and call her again. What I said in my first paragraph can technically be classified as "head games". Its never worth it if head games get involved. But she may be playing you already, who knows? Good luck with her.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Thanks everybody and Goldendelicous.

After I asked if cuddling was moving too fast to her and she replied with she has to be into a guy blah blah blah, she said "but we can do that". So either she realized I was pissed or she realized she better do something because at that point I wasn't going to call her anymore.

After the movie she stayed around for a little while, which was good I guess. Then I walked her to her car. The sign I got was that she wanted to kiss, but me still being mad I simply gave her a hug and said bye.

I still don't know if I am calling her again. Perhaps one more time and I will be aggressive and make some moves regardless. As some of you said, what do I have to lose at this point.

what do you mean, and goldendelicious

ive turned it upsede down looking for a veiled insult...cant find it. plz explain

 

[alien amp pharm]

what do you mean, and goldendelicious

ive turned it upsede down looking for a veiled insult...cant find it. plz explain

When have I ever insulted you?! Me and you are tight like Legos.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

When have I ever insulted you?! Me and you are tight like Legos.

i never said you insulted me

...though youve tried on numerous occasions

 

[alien amp pharm]

Hell, man, let her call you next time. You already established with her that your interested in her. She probably expects you to call within a certain time period. And if you do just that, that tells her that she's got you figured out. By not doing what she expects you to, like calling for another date within a certain time frame, makes her start to wonder how much of a hold she's got on you. If you start placing doubts into her head like that, she just might start pursuing you, if she really does want to be with you. Sometimes a woman desires more something that she can't have, instead of something she can have easily. At this point you've shown her that your something that she can have easily.
And have you been tripping over yourself to please her whenever your with her? If so, you might be presenting yourself as a "nice guy". And everyone knows what that means. Because if you are, then she sees you as the type of guy that kisses her ass. And ain't no woman out there gonna respect a guy that kisses her ass. And women never have lustful desires for a man they don't respect.
Or go ahead and call her again. What I said in my first paragraph can technically be classified as "head games". Its never worth it if head games get involved. But she may be playing you already, who knows? Good luck with her.

Yeah I'm confused here too. I mean a typical girl I'd know what to and not to do (even though I'd probably do something different and blow it), but I think it's safe to say this is a ginueine good girl. For crying out loud she volunteered to ring the bell for the salvation army before she came over last night.

I actually believe her when she says she's a slow mover. She is showing signs of interest at least. When she was leaving she said "We have a lot of dvd's to watch" ...referring to my dvd collection.

And if she is indeed a good girl/old fashioned then she won't call me. She hasn't called me first yet, but always answers or promptly returns my calls. So I will have to call her if I want to go out again.

I am just going to go with the flow. I think she's interested so it's only a matter of time before she gives in. It's not like she's my GF, so I can still seek other females. Actually I have a hot 21 yr old lined up for an out of town trip in 2 weeks. :