Girl coming over tonight, vote on which move I should make

[biteme]

Sorry to hear you're the "nice guy." She's tired of the gang bangs with her drug addict biker boyfriend she still sleeps with and is looking for you....but wait for marriage...she's a "good girl." Sorry, but 99% of "good girls" are running from their slut past....

He just go with his animal instincts. What has he got to lose? All she can do say no. Quit being a pussy.

 

[jackangel]

Oh man I am never gonna get laid again.

She just left.

I thought I was all smooth when after eating (chinese carryout) I asked what her fortune cookie said. It said something lame and then she asked what mine said. I acted like I was reading it and said "A wise man always cuddles with hot chick during movie". I immediately followed with "Man those chinese are smart".

She then shot me down with "That's okay I'm fine right here" while sitting on the other side of the couch.

I looked like a deer caught in the headlights. I mean how could she resist this Abercrombie and Fitch-like pretty face?!?

She kept blabbering crap throughout the previews and i was like "yeah whatever".

I was fuming inside and couldn't contain it anymore so about 5 minutes into the movie I bursted out with "So is cuddling considered moving too fast for you!?". She laughed and said something to the effect that she is weird but she has to make sure she is into a guy before she kisses, cuddles, etc or else it doesn't feel right to her.

A few minutes later she leans over and puts her head on my shoulder and later in the movie in my lap.

Almost 45 minutes into the movie she pauses the dvd, turns to me as I have a confused look about me, and then proceeds to unzip my pants. She goes down faster than Soklules on ice covered in motor oil. A few minutes later we are tearing each other's clothes off and all I remember after that is shooting my load while thinking of midgets riding tricycles while sucking on lollipops.

Ok so i made that last paragraph up but the rest was what happened. Man this girl has to be a virgin and I might as well be because I see no sex on the horizon.

after that initial exchange (that's okay i'm fine right here???), i think i would be too put off to sit next to her through an entire movie. that's when you say goodbye.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

oh God shes one of those

those sorts of girls need a sales pitch close to brainwashing, then after sex theyre "in love". in short, a total disaster.

anyone who needs more than 4 dates to see if shes "really into a guy" is a mental/emotional defecit, as is the guy who hangs around that long while she makes up her mind

personally, id tell her straight that while i like her, im a bit put off by the fact that she lets her mental hangups get in the way of her displaying affection, because it shows a lack of trust, respect, and acceptance. while its good not to slut around (like SOME members on this board, dont make me name names) letting indecision stop her from reassuring her potential partner with some making out is silly, and sucks the fun out of relationships. then tell her that while sex isnt important to you, since you can get it whenever you like from some hot girls you know (try to keep a straight face when you say this, ok ) and you arent at all pressuring her, you dont want to see her again until she has a good long think about what she wants and how she is going to go about it, since youre passing up opportunities every day/week with other good looking women, and it isnt fair that she drag you into her resolution of her emotional issues - then tell her youre going to call her on blah blah day and youll talk then.

part of relationships is risk. if she isnt willing to step up and face it like an adult, and instead wants to drag it out over weeks of platonic, boring dating (you were watching a DVD for goodness sake, its not like you were even getting to know one another! yeesh!) like some overly guarded teenager, then she isnt worth dating.

either way youll either be physical in a few days or youll be moving on, either of which are fine.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

dunk: how you gonna chew it with no teeth?

 

[Dunk]

dunk: how you gonna chew it with no teeth?

just quoting AL Pacino from GlenGary GlennRoss. Good flick. Watch it if you haven't already.

 

[jackangel]

just quoting AL Pacino from GlenGary GlennRoss. Good flick. Watch it if you haven't already.

homo

 

[Dunk]

Tit! Oh, mommy. Most Indians would say "cow" because they are sacred, but I hear "milk," I think giant jugs. You see, I cannot go home a virgin. I came here to study the great American art of muff diving. To smack clam, munch rug, dine at just one American pink taco stand! You know, I wanted to, how is it, park the porpoise. You know? I want to take it through the car wash, baby. And get it waxed. I want to wax it. Wax it! You know, and air dry. Air dry that shit, yeah! And I would like to be your assistant very much, Mr. Van Wilder.

that was YOU in Van Wilder?

 

[wootoom]

you should wear a mask

 

[GoldenDelicious]

just quoting AL Pacino from GlenGary GlennRoss. Good flick. Watch it if you haven't already.

you bastard you made a vein pop on my temple i think i have anger issues from getting jumped last month. someones going to cop a flogging

anyway i might pick it up later, i have to drop some dvds off (that i didnt end up watching. again.)

 

[alien amp pharm]

Thanks everybody and Goldendelicous.

After I asked if cuddling was moving too fast to her and she replied with she has to be into a guy blah blah blah, she said "but we can do that". So either she realized I was pissed or she realized she better do something because at that point I wasn't going to call her anymore.

After the movie she stayed around for a little while, which was good I guess. Then I walked her to her car. The sign I got was that she wanted to kiss, but me still being mad I simply gave her a hug and said bye.

I still don't know if I am calling her again. Perhaps one more time and I will be aggressive and make some moves regardless. As some of you said, what do I have to lose at this point.