To many guys like to hide in shadows back there and through each other under the bus when ever they get a chance. It really is just a big bomb waiting to explode---atleast I'm 3200 miles away but something tells me I will still feel the after math.
I'm sure you got me beat my friend---I haven't touch a weight in a month(shoulder problems) to much drinking and eating(those fucking mexicans sure do know how to make a plate of nachos)
I just put together a mini diet this week(things are getting out of hand) Take it easy on the pills---they can catch up to you---
Oh yeah, the finger first reminded me. If she stops because of pain(be well lubed first) have her take deep breaths and relax as she exhales(her, not you), concentrating on the anus relaxing. OR you could punch her HARD behind the head and when she comes to, you're done!
Just get her real relaxed, tell her you'll be careful and that you'd never want to hurt her, then take it slow until she relaxes. Personally, I love it. Slow at first then deeper and harder. Feels GREAT.