Getting your girl to lose weight...

[chucktown04]

Ok I'm 24 and just started dating this girl who is 21. She's real cool and everything but there is one problem...she is a little on the heavy side. I want to just be attracted to her for who she is but I think physical attraction is very important too and I know this sounds extremely shallow. She's still pretty but I want her to lose about 30-40 lbs. Right now she's about a 5 but I have seen pictures and she is a 9+ when her weight was down just under 2 years ago. How do I get her to get serious about losing weight without seeming like a total ass. If it helps I'm very in shape and athletic and this girl totally likes me a lot. Any advice?

 

[chucktown04]

Is this the girl who wants you to punch her in the gut during sex?

Same girl but she was never into the belly punching it was her boyfriend who liked doing it and she was skinny when they were dating. She doesn't want me to do it lol

 

[Hellawulf]

Same girl but she was never into the belly punching it was her boyfriend who liked doing it and she was skinny when they were dating. She doesn't want me to do it lol

Maybe she isn't fat, maybe she is just swollen from getting punched in the belly so much,

 

[BNG]

It's what she wants that will determine her size!
She owes you nothing.

Now, you need to encourage her, do physical stuff with her, eat well when you're together. Be careful about talking about how she looked before. She probably gained the weight because the last asshole she was with treated her bad and her reaction was eating or getting fat to push him away.
She has to decide she wants to look that way, you have to help her by keeping things fun and doing things that are active together. You may mention how much you care about her health as you are looking forward to a Loooong relationship.

The last guy may have damaged he self esteem to the point that she will need a lot of building up.

 

[chucktown04]

It's what she wants that will determine her size!
She owes you nothing.

Now, you need to encourage her, do physical stuff with her, eat well when you're together. Be careful about talking about how she looked before. She probably gained the weight because the last asshole she was with treated her bad and her reaction was eating or getting fat to push him away.
She has to decide she wants to look that way, you have to help her by keeping things fun and doing things that are active together. You may mention how much you care about her health as you are looking forward to a Loooong relationship.

The last guy may have damaged he self esteem to the point that she will need a lot of building up.

I know she owes me nothing and she told me she gained the weight partying in college. Thanks for the advice about not bringing up how she looked before because I wasn't sure if I should. Great advice!

 

[IronPL]

LOL OP is fucking a fat bitch!

 

[Beaverscratch]

Have active sex with her daily for a month, get her to do positions where she is lifting her body with her legs/glute muscles. That, and always have sex with the lights on so she will be more motivated to look good for you. If you really like the girl it wont matter that much if she carries a few extra lbs.

 

[RADCHAD1985]

lol after sex i smoked a joint and she smoked a ham!

 

[SpyWizard]

video tape you and her having sex.. then show it to her and ask if she likes how she looks..

 

[CajunSaint]

sneak winny and var pills in her food! lol