Gather ye rosebuds....

[Test boy]

Huh....I've seen a few girls shake and it never occurred to me that they were excited in a good way. I figured they were cold or scared by my height (6'5") or the bulge in me trousers.

 

[buksoon]

bump -- more input, please.

No pun on me, the virgin, begging for some input.

 

[big4life]

Have you talked to your doctor about this. They
can prescribe some medicine that helps to
relax you in stressful situations.
I'm drawing a blank on the med. names right now.

If you don't feel comfortable doing that, try to get
out in social situations more.
Take it in small steps, get a girlfriend or sister to go out with you so you can feel more comfortable meeting
guys.

Don't make yourself sick worrying about
what guys are going to think, you will
find that some of us are fools and
some of us are pretty good guys.

Good luck.

 

[Fa2]

Definitley not a turnoff, most guys salivate when they hear that being the horny bastard we are. Hey, if your not ready than your not ready, you've waited 28 years already, but I wouldn't mind being in your way once this "STORM" gets started...

 

[WombRaider]

buk,
Do you masturbate?

 

[buksoon]

Whew boy, how granddaddy would roll over in his grave if he knew what I was gabbing about with strangers.

Womb, your question:

On the one hand, I don't keep an illustrated copy of Sex For One on my night table! I'm more of a wriggler. Do you know what I mean by that? But I wriggle every night.

Guys,

 

[LawDawg8]

Just go for it already... You've already waited for it too long. I'm not saying to become a whore overnight or anything, but at least find someone whom you think is attractive and come on to him and let him have you. (Make sure he wears a condom). Once you get that initial experience over, a whole new world will be opened up to you. Don't make it out to be the end-all-be-all of humanity or anything, it's really just sex, so don't get your hopes up TOO much. Besides, it'll probably hurt like hell the first time. I think virgin women are highly attractive as long as there's hope that they'll give it up before too long. I don't like the way this hasn't taken a negative tone because that wasn't my intention at all - quite the contrary. Just go ahead and get it over with.... and of COURSE, post here immediately the dirty details of how it was !!!

Whew boy, how granddaddy would roll over in his grave if he knew what I was gabbing about with strangers.

Womb, your question:

On the one hand, I don't keep an illustrated copy of Sex For One on my night table! I'm more of a wriggler. Do you know what I mean by that? But I wriggle every night.

Guys,

 

[Test boy]

I think this helps confirm my suspicions. Promiscuos women really don't like men, they just screw them. A virgin on the other hand is quite likely to like and respect men. Geez...we certainly deserve it! Since you "wriggle" every night, I may be interested in helping you with your predicament. Test boy

 

[Mandinka]

Buk

Shit , I posted my long-winded reply on KingKong's thread , didn't see this one.
Testboy , I definitely agree with you , but I'd go even further , promiscuous women in my experience hate men and consider them to be "the enemy".

 

[buksoon]

My sweet Mandinka! It's a good thing you are so far away. If you were here, and I got to hear you say those things in an Irish lilt (ooooh, sweet Mary Jesus, an Irish accent!!), I'd have to pull you down on top of me ... making all of this moot.

SexKitten, it's funny: I have a sister who's the opposite of me, too. She always tells me never to go to a tropical isle, they might sacrifice me. And I always say, "this from the girl who's easier to get into than community college!!" It's kind of funny.

Thanks guys for all the opinions and insights. You didn't have to respond but you did. You rock.

Mandinka, I shall think of you whenever I eat my Lucky Charms. They're magically delicious, you know.