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evansteve said:
I know what you're saying. It shouldn't be a requirement though. I feel like I could live a pretty happy life by myself if I had to.
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I know what you're saying. It shouldn't be a requirement though. I feel like I could live a pretty happy life by myself if I had to.
EnderJE said:
well, nothing really. she's not a prude at ALL
, she seems to follow some guideline i've seen other women do too about what's right- instead of what she feels/thinks/wants.she doesn't answer her phone if a guy calls too late or early in the day, even if she's up. and then she's not happy with him. my thought is if you're 40 and really not happy being single and a guy calls you at 11pm just to say goodnight... BE HAPPY.
GoldenDelicious said:its about perception. she wants to portray herself as having an active social life (which is attractive to other people, usually) and also, given that that guy goes for weeks without without calling her (dont know how far they have gone before this, sexually/emotionally though) she doesnt want to come across like she is so desperate as to be at his beck and call.
she did the right thing in that she should keep him wanting more, but the trick is to give a little at a time, and keep him keen...not slam the door shut in his face, letting their rapport go to hell. what she should have done is say that she has some informal sort of plans to join a group of friends doing something on the weekend (which makes her look social/attractive) and then ask what he had in mind (gives him a chance to express interest, initiate a date, or let him talk about his weekend) then she could arrange to maybe meet him "later on" in the night, or setup something during the week.
anyway thats how id do it
and besides, sugarplum, how can you complain about game playing when you yourself have a 2 day rule?
i do?
read that again, its a 2 YEAR rule.
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I do see her point of View
I also recognise that she has been reading THE RULES BOOK,
Which is understandable, some guys and i mean some guys, call girls they are not really interested in the last minute only because, they have no plans of their own, when you really like a girl, it is gentle man like, to ask her out in advance, after all, she may have a life and might but able to fit you in the last minute,
But i do think Women take the rules a bit too far, it is a guild and NOT the bible, I think your friend needs to relax a bit more, i get the feeling she can be very intense or just too chilled, which makes a guy think she might not be interested.
I also recognise that she has been reading THE RULES BOOK,
Which is understandable, some guys and i mean some guys, call girls they are not really interested in the last minute only because, they have no plans of their own, when you really like a girl, it is gentle man like, to ask her out in advance, after all, she may have a life and might but able to fit you in the last minute,
But i do think Women take the rules a bit too far, it is a guild and NOT the bible, I think your friend needs to relax a bit more, i get the feeling she can be very intense or just too chilled, which makes a guy think she might not be interested.
ChefWide said:
you will get a date and desire on both parties play a major role
I think the the message these types of books try to convey to women is do not let yourself get pushed around by anyone and also that people should follow some sort of dating etiquette which places an emphasis on respect and courteous behaviour
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