games people play....

[The Shadow]

so a guy has to ask you three days (wait... not YOU. i mean 'a woman') before the day he wants to go out or the woman should say no?
thats dumb. if she's free, and she wants to go... GO.

thats the stupid RULE in the RULE book

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

she's writing her own book:

"How to ever not GET a date."

THAT'S MY BOOK!!!

 

[Carmen]

i prefer a 2 year lead time. anything less and i say i have plans.

 

[The Shadow]

Lol

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I hope she finds the right guy.......dating is hard

The Hawaiian shirt guy called and asked if your free Saturday night..

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

i have a friend, who is nice looking i think
http://uploads.bestupload.com/redir/59892.jpg
She's 40 and has been divorced for about 11 years and is a constant state of depression over her single status. Sometimes to the point of bitterness. She dates a lot, but it rarely progresses past the first or second date and then when it does, the relationship BARELY takes off the ground before its over and then she goes on another rant about how hard it is to find a good, decent, single guy.
since, of course, i've never been on a date with her, i have no idea what she is doing- but i tend to think she talks about herself a lot. OR she drinks too much cause she tends to do that. She is a fun person though.

Anyway... she just called me and was telling me about a guy she has been after for a while. she's gone out with him a few times, but his interest in her is obviously waning because there are weeks at a time that she doesn't hear from him.
just before she called me, she said the guy called and asked what she was doing this weekend.
I said 'oh, thats great! what are you going to do with him?'
she said "NOTHING... i said i was busy"
I asked what was she doing and she said.. nothing. she just didn't think he should call late wed. night and know that she had absolutely no plans for the weekend.
so i said "but you DON"T have plans for the weekend."
and she said she didn't want him thinking she had no life.
um... ok. that just confuses the hell out of me. she asked what i would have done and i told her, i would have said "great! i have no plans at all for the weekend!"
she laughed at me and said i have a lot to learn.
????
no thanks... i don't think i want to know that whole game.

Wow, she's 40 and still doing this mindgame shit? That's too bad. No wonder so many people out there are cynical, bitter, confused, angry bastards.

But we can't be real with each other, ohh nooo, cuz we'd risk hurting their feelings. Go figure, how ironic.

I scoff at mind games.
This is probably why I don't get laid a lot.

Oh well.

 

[EnderJE]

Wow. She's no spring chicken. What's she saving herself for?

 

[Mr. dB]

I was ready to ask you for her phone number before you got the the "but..." part.

BTW, linky no worky.

 

[from zero]

Your friend is a moron.

 

[EnderJE]

BTW, linky no worky.

You ain't missing much.