gladiola - yeh i guess offend was the wrong word depending on the friend. BORE (for the people who are happy with themselves and annoy (for my friends and family who know they should eat good and exercise but don't want to think about it).
My closer friends lift and compete...I have a few that dont..but I do not discuss diet or training w/ them...gets me fustrated and they become more and more lazy..and I HATE lazy mofos.