(for the girls) when you first see a guy what do you judge

[Bikini Mod]

you kinda did. But fuck it - looks count. Everybody wants the whole package, right? Someone that makes you laugh, is open and sincere without being pathetic, and makes your knees weak when you see them.

But what is "the whole package" for you may not be necessary for me.

If all else was equal between two men and one was Arnold while the other was a troll, of course I would pic Arnold - duh.

But that doesn't mean that another woman would be attracted to Arnold.

Honestly, when I first see a man it isn't his looks necessarily but more the way he carries himself and interacts with everyone from the guy that parks the cars, to the washroom attendent to the CEO of the company. For me THAT IS EVERYTHING.

 

[Bikini Mod]

It's interesting....when my salary jumped and I traded in my regular car for a kick-ass car, how much "better looking" and "fun" I became....

Men value beauty and women value security. All else stems from this.

 

[Sean Scott]

It's interesting....when my salary jumped and I traded in my regular car for a kick-ass car, how much "better looking" and "fun" I became....

Funny how that works....hmmmmmmmmmm

 

[sshadoww]

But what is "the whole package" for you may not be necessary for me.

If all else was equal between two men and one was Arnold while the other was a troll, of course I would pic Arnold - duh.

But that doesn't mean that another woman would be attracted to Arnold.

Honestly, when I first see a man it isn't his looks necessarily but more the way he carries himself and interacts with everyone from the guy that parks the cars, to the washroom attendent to the CEO of the company. For me THAT IS EVERYTHING.

I dunno...I have dated some extremely attractive women- and after the initial bliss stage, I always had to deal with a high maintenance attitude- to the point it drove me nuts after awhile and they became more of a headache than anything else...so the looks became uglier with the personality.

However, I never had more fun and more in common with some of the average looking girls I dated because their personality was cool...it was just so easy to be around them. I guess you need a bit of both worlds to find the happy package.