appearance counts -- I like men who look well put together and professional
Your question is a little odd. Of course you judge on appearance first. That is all you know about the person when you first see them. That doesn't mean it is our number one priority.
you kinda did. But fuck it - looks count. Everybody wants the whole package, right? Someone that makes you laugh, is open and sincere without being pathetic, and makes your knees weak when you see them.