Will2BLean
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I have just started working 2nd shift this week, and it's really wearing me out. I know that I'm getting enough sleep because I can't roll myself out of bed until I've had 8 or 8.5 hours sleep. I haven't been training hard this week either, so that isn't it... I'm convinced that it's the change in my shift. Whenever I worked my 8-4:30, I had no problem going to bed at 11:00 and waking up at 6am to run a couple miles and lift. Is there anything I can do to make it easier? It's so frustrating!
Will2BLean said:As for rotating my whole schedule... that does make sense, but that would really throw off my weekends. Saturday and Sunday are the only times I get to see my husband at all (well, other than seeing him asleep when I get home ), and if I slept during the day I wouldn't get to see him at all. I'm really kicking myself in the butt for changing jobs right now... I just did it because it was a closer drive.
I can understand that. I just feel like I would be cheating both of us out of quality time if I followed a completely different sleep schedule than he does. Our weekends are always so jammed packed with things we love to do, and I don't want to lose any of that time. We've talked about it, and he's going to try to take naps when he gets home from work/gym in the evening, that way when I get home he can stay up for an hour before we go to sleep. He never has problems falling asleep, so I don't think it will affect him much. I, on the other hand, am a horrible sleeper. Hopefully that will take away some of the stress on the situation. For now, I'm thinking about buying a small pack (like a week supply) of thermos from Wal-Mart and taking them at around 7:00 or 8:00 in the morning. That way, when I do get up, I'll have energy to get my day going... at least until I get used to my new schedule.MuscleMom said:My son keeps his schedule when he's visiting with us; we get up around 7:30 in the morning and go to bed around midnight. He gets up around 1:00 p.m. and corks off sometime in the late morning hours (5:00 a.m. ish???) ... it's just too hard on him to try to keep up with us, and we can't function much after midnight. Think of it this way, you're putting your body through jet lag every time you change your schedule.
I can understand the marriage thing ... I'm not even going to try to be a smartass and give you a glib answer on that one. It's something you have to work out with your husband. Sit down, talk with him, see where his head is at.
I can tell you after 21 years total marriage (to two different men) a sound marriage is built on the quality of the time you spend together as a couple, not the quantity.
Will2, my son is in the service and is on mids. One of the first things he learned is that you can't get right home from work and go right to sleep, you have to have decompression time.
What you have to do (which is what his entire class was instructed) is essentially rotate your entire schedule but keep it the same ... does that make sense?
The other thing, it really takes close to a week to get into the swing of things.
Buffalogal ... OMG how can you do it??? Shift changes EVERY week, what kind of job IS THAT???[/QUOTE]
I know it's hard for some people to believe, but my body (so far) has functioned well with rotating. I'm a meteorologist, and since the weather never stops, neither do we. It pays to LOVE your job - if I didn't, I couldn't do it!
I do the same thing as your son. I do rotate my schedule around the shift I'm working. On midnight, I eat breakfast in the afternoon, lunch before going to work, supper at 3 in the morning, etc etc. Sounds a little absurd but it works for me.
The main thing is finding what works best for you. That may take several weeks but, I promise Will2BLean, you'll get the hang of it.