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SoreArms

SoreArms

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I've been broken up with my ex GF of 3 years for about 8 months now. Although I still loved her, I just felt the relationship was done and needed to move on. So when we broke up, although I was also heartbroken she was hurt way more than me. We have remained friends over the time that we have been broken up, but I have made it a point to keep our encounters minimal mostly for her sake (I was once very heartbroken by another ex GF and found that I healed much faster once I closed contact with her). We hung out recently at my house, and as would be expected, things got a little hot and heavy, although we didn't fuck. I was into it while it was happening, but felt wrong afterwards since I don't want to thwart any healing progress on her side and have her re-attach herself to me. I am now at the point were I could probably take it as a sport "F" and not give it any emotional meaning but not sure she is. She is coming over again today to "burn cd's". I have a feelign that things will get hot and heavy today and we'll wind up fucking. Fucking the person that you are trying to get over is that last thing you want to do. Although I am horny and full of testosterone like any verile male, I am quite sensitive to these matters. While I have a "hard on" just thinking about her coming by, a piece of me is also telling me not to do anything.

Should I do the deed if it is offered? Should I assume that she at the same point as I am and not worry about her feelings? Or should I be strong, not give in to her advances (that i am only assuming she will make) and keep on moving on?

What do you guys think?
 
Bottom line is if you fuck her she will most-likely read more into it. If you are into using people to make yourself feel better go ahead. Now if you are up front with her before hand and tell her that this is just a fuck and nothing more and she understands this, then go for it. Just make sure you both are on the same page.
 
I think you should share your concerns with her, in the most diplomatic, but honest way.

Then plow her until she passes out.
 
Paulo said:
I think you should share your concerns with her, in the most diplomatic, but honest way.

Then plow her until she passes out.
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Interesting concept.

I know what's best, but I'm afraid that I will not be able to restrain myself once the "plot thickens".

I will try my best to behave (dammed conscience).
 
even if you tell her it is just a pure sport fuck, it will not be like that for her...its easy to look back and only remember the good times, and this will just bring up old feelings!
 
get out now and move on.
 
Agreed, she will think you want her back. Been there done that, its not pretty, trust me! You've got to break it down to her and if she still wants it tell her no, that will make her want it more! Wait I'm susposed to be telling you how to not do her WTF??

Viper
 
Don't be an ass. Remember that Einstein's definition of insanity was doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results! Like dzulboy said, she's an ex for a reason!

In my experience, when people ask questions like this, they have already made their mind up.....
 
even if you tell her its sport fucking she will still reattatch

use the opportunity to turn her down and help her out, rather than rationalise about it and hurt her more

its the end that matters here, not what you thought as you were doing the deed
 
DON'T DO IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any progress to get over you, or you over her will be gone, and the pain will start all over again.

Sometime we all think we can controll are emotions, but God gave them to us for a reason, and that (dammed conscience)
is there for a reson. It is there to keep you from doing things that you know is wrong.

That buddy fuck thing usally dosen't work, unless that is the way the relationship started and stayed that way.

Women are more emotional creatures then men, We see sex as love and men see it as sex. Untill you get married then sex becomes love to a man and sex to a woman,, hummmm how does that happen?

The moral of the story is when it is done , its done and leave it that way.. because there will only be more pain in the future, an X is an X for a reason. ( as others have said )


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Thanks for all the help and moral support.

Unfortunately, while my morals and will power are strong, my libido is stronger, and the true scoundrel in me won.

I knew, once she walked through the door, that it would happen, and it did. I had forgotten that she was quite the little fuckstress. While I am saddened at the thought of cracking the fragile state of her sanity, I cannot truly say that I am full of remorse. I am a sexual being by nature, and she is fully aware of this flaw. This does not imply that I place blame on her, but I would not wave a piece of meat in front of a tiger and expect him not to bite. I can only hope that her pain is brief.

c'est la vie!
c'est la vie!

BTW
Not one CD got burned.
 
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