Ex GF advice

[SoreArms]

I've been broken up with my ex GF of 3 years for about 8 months now. Although I still loved her, I just felt the relationship was done and needed to move on. So when we broke up, although I was also heartbroken she was hurt way more than me. We have remained friends over the time that we have been broken up, but I have made it a point to keep our encounters minimal mostly for her sake (I was once very heartbroken by another ex GF and found that I healed much faster once I closed contact with her). We hung out recently at my house, and as would be expected, things got a little hot and heavy, although we didn't fuck. I was into it while it was happening, but felt wrong afterwards since I don't want to thwart any healing progress on her side and have her re-attach herself to me. I am now at the point were I could probably take it as a sport "F" and not give it any emotional meaning but not sure she is. She is coming over again today to "burn cd's". I have a feelign that things will get hot and heavy today and we'll wind up fucking. Fucking the person that you are trying to get over is that last thing you want to do. Although I am horny and full of testosterone like any verile male, I am quite sensitive to these matters. While I have a "hard on" just thinking about her coming by, a piece of me is also telling me not to do anything.

Should I do the deed if it is offered? Should I assume that she at the same point as I am and not worry about her feelings? Or should I be strong, not give in to her advances (that i am only assuming she will make) and keep on moving on?

What do you guys think?

 

[HodgeMN]

Bottom line is if you fuck her she will most-likely read more into it. If you are into using people to make yourself feel better go ahead. Now if you are up front with her before hand and tell her that this is just a fuck and nothing more and she understands this, then go for it. Just make sure you both are on the same page.

 

[Paulo]

I think you should share your concerns with her, in the most diplomatic, but honest way.

Then plow her until she passes out.

 

[SoreArms]

I think you should share your concerns with her, in the most diplomatic, but honest way.

Then plow her until she passes out.

Interesting concept.

I know what's best, but I'm afraid that I will not be able to restrain myself once the "plot thickens".

I will try my best to behave (dammed conscience).

 

[HumanShell]

Got a webcam?

 

[magman1]

even if you tell her it is just a pure sport fuck, it will not be like that for her...its easy to look back and only remember the good times, and this will just bring up old feelings!

 

[dzulboy]

i didn't even bother reading the post just shoot her she is an X for a reason

 

[ZKaudio]

get out now and move on.

 

[JBRO]

ruffies or GHB. then swear nothing happened.

 

[hamstershaver]

io say hit the kitty for old times sake, she knows its over but you can both still catch a nut