Ever seen your first love's kids?

[mountain muscle]

Very strange for me.
She sent me pics, because we are still friends and I hope we will always be.
He is such a cutie, I would attach pics if I could.
Strange though I am still protective over her even after all these years, and strange I am after she has had a child.

Anyone else been through this? This is the second time for me as far as ex's go. But first love, she just sent me pics. Brought tears to my eyes when I saw him.

 

[seizer]

Life is beautiful, isnt it?

 

[mountain muscle]

Life is beautiful, isnt it?

Absolutely it is.

Anyway, back to the question...

 

[silverfish]

Yes, makes me friggin sick. I see her and her kids when I pick up my nephew from pre-scool some days. On a happier note, she did put on a few pounds after 2 kids so that in itself is satisfying.

 

[Marauder79]

wow i cant imagine seeing that....

so who are you with now? obviously not someone you love as much as her...

do you feel guilty? how do you stay attracted?

 

[mountain muscle]

wow i cant imagine seeing that....

so who are you with now? obviously not someone you love as much as her...

do you feel guilty? how do you stay attracted?

You assume a lot bro.

Just a shock to hear about and see her kids, there is a long history between us before and a bit after she met her husband.
Do I feel guilty? NO. I am glad to see her son and her happy. Just brought back old memories. Apparently for you I cannot have those without feeling guilty or not loving somone I am with?
Please explain.

 

[jerseyart]

No I haven't, but it would probably feel strange.

But I'd be happy for any of them, and genuinely wish them the best.

 

[KillahBee]

Not really sure I ever had a first love or who that would be. But I have seen a lot of past girlfriends' kids and it's more sad than weird.

 

[PBR]

no i have not...and i do know that this would not bother me...however, seeing my ex- wife and her 2 daughters, will just about wreck me for days...

 

[PICK3]

Seen em? I've dated them.

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

 

[HdanSjr]

Wow, i don't think i would want to see my first love's children. There are so many issues still there after being split for 5 years now, for both of us. I don't think i could handle it.

 

[biteme]

I'm not friends with my first love and there's no way I could be. She shattered my heart and it has affected me my whole life.

 

[gotmilk]

On a happier note, she did put on a few pounds after 2 kids so that in itself is satisfying.

I just went thru the same thing. We had a Spring reunion and dreaded going for months. It was much easier to see her and her kids once I saw the 15 pounds of fat that developed just in her ass...and her meathead husband.

Oh well...there's a great reason why I moved on...and didn't end up in that living hell.

 

[Sub-Zero]

You assume a lot bro.

Just a shock to hear about and see her kids, there is a long history between us before and a bit after she met her husband.
Do I feel guilty? NO. I am glad to see her son and her happy. Just brought back old memories. Apparently for you I cannot have those without feeling guilty or not loving somone I am with?
Please explain.

dude you should go up to her kids and tell em all about how you used to plug their mom and the other dirty shit u guys used to do

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah his kid is the same age as my oldest kid and they are friends. Its kinda weird but i never saw him

 

[strangebrew]

lol, I wouldn't give two shits. I doubt she has any though.

 

[EnderJE]

I saw my first love's husband last month or so. It kinda of messed with me abit because I remember us saying that we were meant to be.

On the other hand, she's already seen both my kids, so I guess I must of freaked her out too.

 

[DIVISION]

dude you should go up to her kids and tell em all about how you used to plug their mom and the other dirty shit u guys used to do

Lego Lovin' 2 tha fullest......nugga.



DIV

 

[ZKaudio]

if your first love didn't hurt getting over, then it probably wasn't your first love... that said, it would be difficult to see one's first love w/ kids and a fam of their own. no doubt

 

[Dial_tone]

My first love is on hubby #3 and they have been unable to get pregnant. She is a wonderful person and I hope they are successful.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

One thing I've learned in life is that it's not worth having/ holding grudges; especially with regards to females. You'll never truly be happy if such is the case.

 

[Marauder79]

You assume a lot bro.

Just a shock to hear about and see her kids, there is a long history between us before and a bit after she met her husband.
Do I feel guilty? NO. I am glad to see her son and her happy. Just brought back old memories. Apparently for you I cannot have those without feeling guilty or not loving somone I am with?
Please explain.

Well if your with someone else all you do is think about that other person a lot. Its hard to find other people and be with somone when the person you really want doesn want you.

did you just have to move on and accept her being with someone else?

i had a relationship with someone at work and we never really finalized things because it was a work relationship. Work and sex doesnt mix.

But we are both at that age now where we realized maybe we were just too young the and now we both know what we want. It pretty obvious because everyone around knows. Too much attraction and chemistry...clearly. But its me thats stopping things because im scared of being rejected again. Before one day this dude showed up at work with her, someone completly out of the cirle of friends. I got burned. I know shes still with him, but its clear that things arent working out for them.

please tell me whats your story with your ex and why did she become your ex and why did she end up with that other dude.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

*Subcribes*
I love these kindsa threads...

 

[Marauder79]

Sounds like everyone has theyre Ex's still around and seeing them.

Do you guys always end up growing up around them, and how havent they moved away?

So i take it everyone doesnt ever end up moving to another city? and now you guys take your kids to school and see them all the time when they take theirs?

I always though you would just end up moving away from her and probably never see her again, if anything run into her down the road in your new BMW and make her envy your life now?

im 25

 

[strangebrew]

Sounds like everyone has theyre Ex's still around and seeing them.

Do you guys always end up growing up around them, and how havent they moved away?

So i take it everyone doesnt ever end up moving to another city? and now you guys take your kids to school and see them all the time when they take theirs?

I always though you would just end up moving away from her and probably never see her again, if anything run into her down the road in your new BMW and make her envy your life now?

im 25

I haven't seen my ex since our break up. That was...4 years ago.

The only chance of me running into her again is if I go to my 10 year reunion.

 

[sigweed]

i guess my first gf would qualify for this... and to be hoenst she's an amazing person and in the future when she gets married and whatnot, ill be happy for her without question... but i mean she's taking Harvard Law right now, so I don't think I'm going to be able to impress her with a BMW or anything haha

 

[coverguy]

i never saw her kid, but i saw her pregnant ... rough!

 

[Zebo]

No, but every girlfriend I had before my wife turned into a baby machine.

That was close.....too close.

 

[Griz1]

I don't like it.

Every time I see one of my ex's walking around with kids, I start doing math.

I hate math.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

bump

 

[strangebrew]

It kinda surprises me that most of you still feel an attachment to your ex's. I guess to me, "love" is just a word and I'll never let it affect my logic/common sense again.

 

[dirty~d~]

There is nothing wrong with still having feelings for someone that was important in your life. When those feelings start affecting your current relationship(s) is when you should really consider seeking some kind of closure.