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KAYNE
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YEAH, YOU NEED TO KICK THAT BITCH TO THE CURB (OR CURVE,WHICHEVER...LOL). IF THAT BITCH WAS PRESSURING YOU TO MARRY HER AFTER A FEW MONTHS, DEFINITELY FIRE HER ASS.
KAYNE
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Citruscide
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If it is a bitch causing this shit... then I know what you are talking about. Best thing to do is walk away from the situation and preserve your sanity.
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Frackal
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Give her the ol' Anal Adios[size=-999]©2002 Frackal [/size] !
casavant
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KAYNE said:
You just can't stand "curb" can you? LOL.
Georgie- hey man, tell us what's causing the problem. I'm sure it is at least partly due to your situation with your girl. Maybe it's time for major changes.
But hey, maybe not- I'm not in your shoes. Give us some more info when you get a chance.
vinylgroover
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LMAO @ Frackal, anal adios indeed.
Georgie,
This is getting crazy. I am going to keep telling you the same thing over and over. You need more variety in your life, to meet more people, to get out of this relationship dependancy you've got yourself into. You can't be afraid to live your life. If your girlfriend doesn't like it, move on. To be that dependant on each other after 5 months of going out is absolute madness.
You keep saying you love her and you've never felt this way about anyone else etc. Ask yourself if that's really what it is or whether you can't bear the 'thought' of not being with her because you don't have anyone else in your life. If it is, then ask her to marry you, it's as simple as that. But a word of warning. If marrying her is your way out of a lonely existence, a marriage is doomed to failure.
Your at an age where you should be meeting people and experiencing life. Impress this on your girlfriend as well. Get out and meet new people together. It will enrich your relationship more than you know. There is nothing wrong with wanting to spend alot of time with each other, but i fear the reason you do that is that you both have very few other options, that is not healthy.
You need to find yourself as a person first Georgie and then worry about loving someone else. At the moment, your a hostage to your own insecurity which is borne through this dependancy, that's no way to live.
Georgie,
This is getting crazy. I am going to keep telling you the same thing over and over. You need more variety in your life, to meet more people, to get out of this relationship dependancy you've got yourself into. You can't be afraid to live your life. If your girlfriend doesn't like it, move on. To be that dependant on each other after 5 months of going out is absolute madness.
You keep saying you love her and you've never felt this way about anyone else etc. Ask yourself if that's really what it is or whether you can't bear the 'thought' of not being with her because you don't have anyone else in your life. If it is, then ask her to marry you, it's as simple as that. But a word of warning. If marrying her is your way out of a lonely existence, a marriage is doomed to failure.
Your at an age where you should be meeting people and experiencing life. Impress this on your girlfriend as well. Get out and meet new people together. It will enrich your relationship more than you know. There is nothing wrong with wanting to spend alot of time with each other, but i fear the reason you do that is that you both have very few other options, that is not healthy.
You need to find yourself as a person first Georgie and then worry about loving someone else. At the moment, your a hostage to your own insecurity which is borne through this dependancy, that's no way to live.
The_Mexican
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Youve come to the right place! Have a good cry, then have a bath and read some cosmogeorgie24 said:i dunno what to do i cant think straight, i feel like crying i cant, i feel extremly ANXIOUS im not sure about myself right now
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KAYNE
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casavant said:
FOR SOME REASON, I DONT REALLY LIKE THE WORD "CURB". I'M USED TO "CURVE" SO THATS JUST WHAT COMES OUT. LOL
KAYNE
IT'S THAT FUCKING INSANE BITCH THAT HE ALLOWS TO PLAY GAMES AND PULL THIS BULLSHIT ON.
Now georgie, I don't know you. You are a nameless face who ain't ever sent me shit or done a damn thing for me. I ain't got nothing to gain by telling you wrong, so I am going to tell you this.
You are wasting DAYS and WEEKS and MONTHS of your life man. Get this bitch out. You KNOW it is for the best. You know in your heart it is. But you are weak. You don't want to listen to that inner voice. You don't want to listen to us on the internet tell you the same thing because you are hoping and praying that this settles and everything comes out ok. But it ain't. Ok? Deal with it. You are going to hurt and suffer no matter whether she is in your life or not. So get her out.
You are given so many days on this earth when you are born. I don't know how many days you have left. I hope a lot, but right now, this girl is STEALING your days from you. A true soulmate doesn't conflict and cause pain this way. You think it bothers HER that you hurt? Obviously not, because if it did she would do something about it. Fix her problem or move along and let you heal. But instead, she stays and torments you, makes you wallow in your suffering while she gloats on the inside. You are wasting your precious time and energy on something that simply does not want you. There are others out there that will HAVE you and treat you better. Trust me on this. Until then, you will never know happiness or peace. Only fleeting glimpses of it.
You have got to cut loose and learn to take control of your life again. This is a growing experience for you. In the future, you will see the red flags go off in your head faster.
You have time on your side. You need to GROW and experience a lot of life and what it has to offer. This chic is a road block for you. The best thing that God ever does for us is withholding the things we often want the most. Later we see the insight of this and how lucky we are that we didn't get it. You have a bigger purpose in life and she is not a part of it.
You can love this girl with all your heart and feel like it is the only thing you have to live for and she is the only one for you. Guess what. You are in a CODEPENDENCY RELATIONSHIP. Look up on the net the signs and symptoms of being a co-dependent. You will see I am right.
Love ya darling, but you really need to give this girl a chairshot to the head.
Now georgie, I don't know you. You are a nameless face who ain't ever sent me shit or done a damn thing for me. I ain't got nothing to gain by telling you wrong, so I am going to tell you this.
You are wasting DAYS and WEEKS and MONTHS of your life man. Get this bitch out. You KNOW it is for the best. You know in your heart it is. But you are weak. You don't want to listen to that inner voice. You don't want to listen to us on the internet tell you the same thing because you are hoping and praying that this settles and everything comes out ok. But it ain't. Ok? Deal with it. You are going to hurt and suffer no matter whether she is in your life or not. So get her out.
You are given so many days on this earth when you are born. I don't know how many days you have left. I hope a lot, but right now, this girl is STEALING your days from you. A true soulmate doesn't conflict and cause pain this way. You think it bothers HER that you hurt? Obviously not, because if it did she would do something about it. Fix her problem or move along and let you heal. But instead, she stays and torments you, makes you wallow in your suffering while she gloats on the inside. You are wasting your precious time and energy on something that simply does not want you. There are others out there that will HAVE you and treat you better. Trust me on this. Until then, you will never know happiness or peace. Only fleeting glimpses of it.
You have got to cut loose and learn to take control of your life again. This is a growing experience for you. In the future, you will see the red flags go off in your head faster.
You have time on your side. You need to GROW and experience a lot of life and what it has to offer. This chic is a road block for you. The best thing that God ever does for us is withholding the things we often want the most. Later we see the insight of this and how lucky we are that we didn't get it. You have a bigger purpose in life and she is not a part of it.
You can love this girl with all your heart and feel like it is the only thing you have to live for and she is the only one for you. Guess what. You are in a CODEPENDENCY RELATIONSHIP. Look up on the net the signs and symptoms of being a co-dependent. You will see I am right.
Love ya darling, but you really need to give this girl a chairshot to the head.
