I told her everything before hand. I showed her all the research I had done. Why I thought I should go ahead. She's real smart. She was a merit scholar, graduated with honors from Berkeley and teaches AP chemistry and mathematics. She look at what I had and said "All this stuff in the news about steroids is all BS." Then she said "You're real smart, you won't hurt yourself go ahead." Then she asked about the safety of the gear. She's smart enough to see the problems right away. I told her that I had been watching this board for over a year and showed her how the game is played. I said it's not regulated by the FDA but there are some controls in place to keep the gear safe. She was cool with it.
I tell my wife everything. The last thing I want in this world is to have some asshole tell my wife something I'm doing that might hurt or alarm her. So I just tell her myself. For example: When her best friend from school was kissing me on the neck trying to get me to jump on her I told my wife about it. It actually made my wife feel good. She knows she can trust me.. And believe me her best friend is one hot Chinese woman that I wanted to jump on so bad. But I didn't because I knew that it would hurt my wife.
The real key to good and happy marriage is to put the happiness and wellfare of your spouse before your own. And when your spouse does that in return it will last until you die.