one bad joke in poor taste doesn't negate years of being a good guy poster
I am loving the backlash against the rape jokes (someone plz tell Daniel Tosh they aren't funny) but in the context of it I think it's clear he didn't mean to threaten her. I think he was going for a shock laugh and wasn't trying to actually make her feel bad. He apologized right away, even if it was under the alter, I could tell whoever it was at the time (I thought it was Strongbow LOL) did not mean to hurt her feelings or make her feel bad and felt bad about it.