I'm more of the aggressor. Once in a while, she'll take the role, and I don't mind, but I'm sorta better at it. lol Like hiatsu says, I'd just get even more agressive and dominate her in the end, anyway.
I love being agressive and very gentle at the same time, it does a woman good. You gotta know when to do what, and how to do it, but if done at the right times, it's a great experience for the both of you. I love watching her squeal with delight for long periods of time. thanks