Do you believe in

[Dial_tone]

If anyone can replace love with their names in even half of those things, that sickens me. Some of them especially. "Always trusts". Hah! You're looking to get bit in the ass. That shit is in the bible, I believe. My friend showed me that, or something remarkably similar once before.

It's a bunch of bullshit. Love is just like reality...perception. It's what you make of it. Love doesn't have to be someone who rejoices in truth. Fuck. Ignorance is bliss as far as I'm concerned. And always hopes? Too much optimism, nuh-uh.

Too idealistic, not enough realism there.

Why the fuck people feel like they need to define or explain love in the first place is beyond me. As long as you know it when you feel it nothing else really matters. I don't give a rat's ass what it says in the damn dictionary. Some of you are talking about love like it's something you go out and create. I don't create love or manufacture feelings....they happen to me and I deal with them as best I know how.

 

[Robert Jan]

You´d first have to like, believe in love

 

[velvett]

Not sure about the first sight thing but I knew after a week I was going to marry my girl!

Really, why?

 

[Carmen]

You´d first have to like, believe in love

you will believe in love the second you feel it.
it'll be the second your analytical mind stops telling your heart how to feel.
that'll be when you realize you don't know all the answers and you won't care.

 

[The_Ghost]

Really, why?

why did I know in a week or why wasn't it love at first sight?

 

[The_Ghost]

lol, nice avi you moho!

be nice this avi has been around as long as me!!!!

 

[velvett]

why did I know in a week or why wasn't it love at first sight?

What did you know after one week?

 

[Robert Jan]

you will believe in love the second you feel it.
it'll be the second your analytical mind stops telling your heart how to feel.
that'll be when you realize you don't know all the answers and you won't care.

that´s all happened before

I just see it as a feeling and that´s all. can´t really explain

 

[velvett]

My beau married his ex-wife after three weeks and their total time together was 15 months. (1st date to finalized divorce).

I think it's one of those YMMV situations.


I also know that hell will freeze over before he'll get married again, so because of his/her lust at first site, I'll never marry this guy. YAY me.

(Oddly enough I had the same problem with the ex beau...)

 

[velvett]

you will believe in love the second you feel it.
it'll be the second your analytical mind stops telling your heart how to feel.
that'll be when you realize you don't know all the answers and you won't care.

It's a temporary feeling, all emotion sadness, anger, happiness come in waves.

Love is often confused with compassion and caring that are both actions not emotions.