A beautiful woman once told me you have to be a complete package, mind, body, and soul. C.
I dont think i would ever be interested in a girl if all she is into was my body, its just ridiculus, my body is such a small part of what/who i really am. If i wolk up tomorrow with no muscle, i would still have a life, a bright one at that.
I look fot the same thing in a girl, someone self-sufficient, has a zest for life, and a sence of humour ofcourse.
You ask if Woman prefer the veiny look, or the soft build, etc..... basically the same thing as guys looking at tits, asses, and legs.... nuthing but the visuals. looks are only skin deep brom unless your one of those one-night-playas, you should rethink your approach.
btw, frackel is correct. creativity plays a big part in attraction if you know how to use it. Those who dont have it, will never understand im afraid.