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bodytemple75
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I think from my experiences, that most women don't want to be with a guy that is better looking than they are. This really starts to bother them after a while. They may feel like they will be in competition with you for looks when you are out, you make them feel ugly, or insecure, while most guys can care less if his girl is better looking than him. Most I know highly prefer it. No matter to me. Seems problem arise when you are out and the guy gets a lot of attention his way by other women in public places (Ie: not trying for it). I think most women want the attention when you are out, drawn "their" way, not the guy's. I do think however a lot lie about not liking the "bodybuilder" or to a degree certain levels of that flex mag look. Sure, that's not for everyone, as everyone does have their own legit likes and dislikes, but it seems more socially acceptable for women to agree with this. As an example,... It never had turned me on see'ing a lezbian(s) doing anything. But just about every guy I know, with a few exceptions,...the minute you say the word,...they start to salvitate. I think that most of the times, falls into the catagory of what or how you are "suppossed" to act, rather than how the guy really feels, for acceptance from peers. I myself never was like that though.
Getting back to the point,....I know a lot of people( women) really geniuenly do not like the "bodybuilder" look, and prefer an athletic look instead,...for whatever these are their own individual reasons. "But,"... I have to disagree with the percentage that actually gets turned on, whether or not they admitt that finds that big muscular look attractive. I feel this number probably is close if not even to as how many do not like the look. Most girls will not go chasing after a guy, or admitt to thinking some dude is hot outright, while 98 % of all guys drool at nice looking women and seem to make fools of themselves while persueing them. This is where the power lies with the woman. For this reason they will always have one over on us. Why groups of women pay for the Chippendales dancers who look more like bodybuilders, and the "stares" you get when you are out,...I believe they like what they see.....but granted being GOOD LOOKING OUTRIGHT plays a very big role in this as well. Good looking guys, when jacked up on juice, this does not seem in my mind to hinder their looks but improve. Girls may say one thing, but telling me a lean, ripped, muscular, good looking dude, is a second as compared to some Ck herion sheik model, or the many out of shape boyfriends out there that they select?...No way. I just don't buy that. Its all about control for most,...not all.
Getting back to the point,....I know a lot of people( women) really geniuenly do not like the "bodybuilder" look, and prefer an athletic look instead,...for whatever these are their own individual reasons. "But,"... I have to disagree with the percentage that actually gets turned on, whether or not they admitt that finds that big muscular look attractive. I feel this number probably is close if not even to as how many do not like the look. Most girls will not go chasing after a guy, or admitt to thinking some dude is hot outright, while 98 % of all guys drool at nice looking women and seem to make fools of themselves while persueing them. This is where the power lies with the woman. For this reason they will always have one over on us. Why groups of women pay for the Chippendales dancers who look more like bodybuilders, and the "stares" you get when you are out,...I believe they like what they see.....but granted being GOOD LOOKING OUTRIGHT plays a very big role in this as well. Good looking guys, when jacked up on juice, this does not seem in my mind to hinder their looks but improve. Girls may say one thing, but telling me a lean, ripped, muscular, good looking dude, is a second as compared to some Ck herion sheik model, or the many out of shape boyfriends out there that they select?...No way. I just don't buy that. Its all about control for most,...not all.
