if you look good and use roids to help you look good then the girl will not have a problem with it as chicks like guys with nice bodies. there are thousands of guys with beer bellies out there, if you want to stand out to them and gain their respect look good.... eat healthy, workout. chicks dig that bigtime.
just go on yahoo questions and answers and look at the responses to roid use. you have 'experts' that weigh in and say a bunch of myths.. so you cannot fault a girl for being skeptical about roid use.. its up to YOU to prove to them you know what the heck you are doing and explain to them the risks.
explain to them like 'orals mess with the liver hun.. however i take this milk thistle and i avoid alcohol which keeps my liver healthy'
'AAS does strain kidney's.. however i cycle off and I take before and after blood tests to monitor my lipids'
'AAS does shrink testicles, however i take hcg/hcgenerate which keeps them plump and then i run a pct which helps restore HPTA after my cycle'
if you are honest to them about it and explain that you know what you are doing that will go a long way