I gotta be me, which is why I've had success, and also weirded out dates... and could hear the her eyes rolling, with wtf is he talking bout?
That said, if I tried the teasing/ahole approach, it would come off as weird and annoying.
We are all sexy in some way, and best enthrall possibilities when we are just being us, however, yeah my shit would just come off as annoying, cold, and critical if I were trying to pull off the aloof, and detached style.