Do men like to be hit on?

[blueta2]

OMG you're missing all juicy details! HOW did you flirt? was it intense, uncomfortable level or lighthearted fun. so just just txting and FB so far? you get a good vibe from him? maybe he forgot to call or maybe he is a potential douche.

OMG, I feel like im in HS again!!

hahaha.....so nice of you to get excited for me

Well he asked what I was up to, told him I was in my pool, he said "need a pool boy". I said "sure"
He told me I live close to where his Mom lives and he said "I go visit her often too ;-) " with the wink
it was really easy, smooth and friendly.
The vibe was really cool.
Yes maybe he did forget, but I doubt it, I mean if a man likes a woman, he doesn't forget.

 

[blueta2]

Meh. I doubt he thought through whether or not to call.

Girls are difficult because we think through all our actions in detail to a fault. If we're not calling when we said we would, it's a safe bet we have a good reason and we know what we're doing to whoever we aren't calling.

Guys are simple. If he didn't call at that moment and said he would, he was probably just busy or didn't feel like it right at that moment and really didn't think through how it might affect you or not. He probably didn't think twice about it because he'd figure there's no difference between calling you later or calling you at that moment.

Could be and I am pretty zen and rational when it comes to this, but just seems odd.
If a guy like a girl, he will secure his place.

Maybe I am just being a girl ;-)

 

[ceo]

it's the game. play on player!

 

[blueta2]

I hate games! He lost

 

[-SD-]

what if he calls you lol

 

[blueta2]

I think he would have by now.
If he does, I would be polite I guess

 

[redsamurai]

Guys are simple. If he didn't call at that moment and said he would, he was probably just busy or didn't feel like it right at that moment and really didn't think through how it might affect you or not. He probably didn't think twice about it because he'd figure there's no difference between calling you later or calling you at that moment.

Unfortunately there's more than a kernel of truth to this statement. The contemporary male primate mind is easily sidetracked. The night he was supposed to call blue he was probably thinking there's something i was supposed to do tonight...but then some cleavage flashed on the tv screen or since this is Canada there might have been a Gordy Howe documentary on that he's seen 13 times but no matter.

 

[redsamurai]

I hate games! He lost

yep, all that needs to be said. The problem is if you talk to him when he eventually calls, then you'll validate his games. And the dynamic is set for the duration of the relathionship. I really do beleive it starts that early.

 

[zwhit]

you don't get laid very often, do you, RS?

 

[blueta2]

I won't put too much stock in this. If he txt me back, I will be polite, but no chance I would talk to him on the tel.
Now, if I do get to flip a house, then yes, I will talk to him since he's an awesome renovator, so won't burn any bridges.
He's nice, he was just not into me