Divorces Did You Marry Your Soul Mate?

[Patrick Steele]

my last gf i was w/for 6 1/2 yrs.. no she was not my soulmate...ended going crazy on me and had to let her go.....

soulmate ??? don't think there is one out there...but pick the one that is most compatible

Exactly. When I first start dating a girl, it's all fun and always have a great time being together. But then after getting to know them for a while, they turn into a totally diffirent person. They become more controlled, start acting crazy and ask wayyyy to many personal question.

 

[alien amp pharm]

If you are even talking about who I think you're talking about so help me god

 

[jerseyart]

No I did not.

He was a long hair bass player in a Rock / Blues band.

LOL

And it didn't work out?

 

[theoak01]

Im not married yet but Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years,minus a 2 month stint on my own recently,and before I thought I could marry her,but after today when she showed me she could be violent by throwing shit at me Im glad I woke the fuck up. and now I dont believe I have a soul mate,but I will find someone who me and her can mutally tolerate and respect enough not to drive each other nuts

 

[riverrock]

Had an interesting talk about this with a Canadian girl while on holidays a few years ago. I mean, in a world of about 6 Billion, how culd there be just 1 person out there only?

 

[casualbb]

I think the whole soulmate concept is dangerous...

it pegs you as needing this person, being incomplete without them, etc. Clinging to this idea is what makes people tolerate negative or harmful situations. "but he/she is my soulmate"

There are endless numbers of people that would make any given individual happy. Optimally you shouldn't "need" your SO but rather have decided to be with them based on how they make you feel

 

[Pamela]

LOL

And it didn't work out?

No, I'm sorry to say it didn't!

We were both way to young.

 

[gregory]

I think the whole soulmate concept is dangerous...


There are endless numbers of people that would make any given individual happy. Optimally you shouldn't "need" your SO but rather have decided to be with them based on how they make you feel

Yes this is true. There are endless people that would make someone happy. The problem comes when you try to meet them. You're lucky if you actually find just one in a lifetime, most never find that person, as proven by the divorce rates.

 

[biteme]

Had an interesting talk about this with a Canadian girl while on holidays a few years ago. I mean, in a world of about 6 Billion, how culd there be just 1 person out there only?

Only the igonorant think so, you know those damn Bush supporters. LOL

 

[The Shadow]

Could it be possible that one person feels the other is their soulmate but the other person does not feel the same?

I think I had that once.

Frisky, right?