Definition of romance?

[andezzz999]

Sky fits heaven ....
so ride it....
Lips fit mouth....
so kiss them....
boy fits girl so hold your baby tight...
and the lips they kiss remind you of someone you once knew...
long, long, ago,
familiar as these blue jeans that fit like a glove,
like an old lover cuming back for more.

Of course, my wife things doing the dishes and vacumming for her is romantic even foreplay!

I think romance is doing the unselfesh things that don't have to be asked for but are always appreciated. It can be a kiss a hug, a neck rub....it can be coming home with something special, just going out of ones way in an effort to do somthing nice.

Selfless giving....

 

[Frackal]

I like writing little love notes and hide them in his lunch.

And I get up early and all throughout the house I light candles
so when my love gets up, he see the house all lit up with candles & smelling very good.

One Valentines Day I cut out Red Hearts and wrote I LOVE YOU
on all of them and put them up all over the bed room.

I wonder how many women there are in the US that are similiar in goodness

 

[robsatx]

romance to me . . .

My idea of Romance:

My wife has recently taught me to "love" in a way I never knew existed. Although I have always loved my wife, I have learned (with her help) that to truly love someone requires a lot more risk than I had ever imagined. With greater risk comes greater reward.

As I was learning this "amazing love" - I was having a difficult time loving her that much. I have never felt so vulnerable in all my life. For the first time in our marriage, I feel like we are "holding" each others "hearts" - almost traded. It is very difficult to "describe". But it feels like I am more in tune with her "feelings" than ever before. I feel like a teenager in love that has never been hurt before - but so much more.

Sounds weird . . . huh? Never knew that love could be like this.

Anyhow since this has happened, My wife has become the "best" wife any man could ever ask for. Don't get me wrong she was always a "great" wife. Now she is this amazing - indescribable womain. I can't stop staring at her. I miss her when I am away and she knows exactly how to make me smile. I try my hardest all the time to make her happy. I thought this would fade after a few days. It has been nearly a month and I am looking for more things to try to make here happy. I try to do little things that seem to make a big difference for her.

I can not believe she has felt this way since the beginning. I felt almost "lost" when I realized where I was in my relationship with my wife. She was miles ahead.

Anyhow, thanks for listening. I probably did not do a good job with the description as it is difficult to describe.

Simple Things:

Don't ever forget the love for one and other. Remember to take time and just "talk", "look" and truly "listen" to one and other. Tell each other how much you love each other with simple actions. A smile when you see him/her walk in the door. A kiss goodnight with a long "tight" hug. Feed each other ice cream, cookies or whatever you guys like. Tell each other things you have not told each other in a long time. Bring up memories of good times before, during and after kids. Look at pictures in your early dating stage. It is amazing about the things that you can talk about that will bring back great feelings you forgot existed. Then after you do all that, remember to do it all the time.

To me, the burdens seem to go away during that time together. The pain of the past seems to go also. I have never felt so much joy as I have recently.

I love my wife more than words could ever describe. I can look at her for hours as she sleeps and just smile. I love so many things about her.

I thank the Lord every day for my wife.

P.S. I truly hope that others can feel the way I do. In all my life this has been the most amazing love I have ever experienced. Sex with someone you love like this will be UNREAL. You can almost feel what they feel. It is so much more than sharing. God, I wish I could do a better job of describing this LOVE.

 

[robsatx]

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[Puddles]

Robstax...sounds like you've fallen in love with your wife all over again...only this time it's really deep in your soul. The two of you are one. I'm so happy when I hear other couples feeling like this. This is what life is all about. Enjoy!!!

 

[Ceebs]

How timely - I was just going to bump this in honor of next Friday.

 

[guards]

Romance, for me, is the glint in the person you care about's eye when they look at you.


It's only fucking if that glint isn't present

NOW i feel like a femme

 

[Pamela]

robsatx,

I feel your love for you wife..

You have found something that few people find.

What you have describe is what most people are looking
for and this is what life is really about..


Happy Valentines Day to you Both..


Pamela

 

[robsatx]

P.S.

Forgot to tell you guys. Thank you for the "clean" ideas that you have given me for my wife and I. I have big plans for the Valentines day weekend.

Have a great one . . .

 

[Surgical]

My girl is in Italy right now for school for the semester. I love sending her cards, DVD's to watch. Just anything that makes her day a little better. Just today she received the Valentine's Day box I sent to her, filled with Myoplex, some chocolate to cheat with a DVD, and 2 Vanentine's cards. It made my day to imagine the smile on her face when she got it because she was not expecting it at all. Just the little things, the notes and little things you say mean the most. We often go back to the French restaurant where I fell in love with her. I'm going to visit her in 27 days, can't wait!!!