romance is such a dynamic thing. Romance and being romantic has a great deal to do with being attentive to your partner IMO. Initially romance has to do with discovery and interest in who someone is and attraction and personal expression IMO. Sometimes romance has to do with cards, candy, jewelry, flowers and other ways of showing that I care/love her. Sometimes its more of sharing that special part of myself emotionally and spending time in ways that are meaningful like laying on a blanket under the stars drinking champagne and eating strawberries, or cuddling up in front of the fire holding each other- just sharing in the small beauitful things in life that I find to make special memories. Other times it is making her breakfast in bed or drawing her a warm bubble bath, giving her a cup of hot chocalate with a candy cane in it and giving her a massage afterwards if she's had a long day. But, then again, romance could also be fucking her like a porn star at the end of a night out on the town whenever she has been absolutely dressed to kill and there is nobody in the world that I would rather be close to/ share myself with. Anyway, my incoherent .02 in ramblings.