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Definition of romance?

Ceebs

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I know we talk really dirty on this board, but once in awhile it's nice to stop and appreciate the value of romance, if only to add variety to your sexual routine.

I used to think that romance was about candlelit dinners, flowers, and all of those greeting card cliches, but now I'm thinking it's about connecting with someone on an intellectual level, and simply showing genuine kindness and caring. You can't pin romance down to an activity or a gift of material possessions - it's in the way you relate to your significant other. You can be having the nastiest, porn star-iest sex ever, but as long as you have nothing but loving intentions in your heart - that's romantic.

At least, that's my definition - how do you all define it?

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:devil:
Kind of like the difference between "making love" and "having hot monkey pornstar sex"? My wife and I have always had hot pornstar sex, since day one, and it keeps getting wilder as the years go by. If you would have asked me 10 years ago where our relationship would be today sexually speaking I would have never seen this coming. Anyway, romance can be perceived differently and be as individual as one's fingerprint. Now to answer your original question, romance for us is flirting, teasing, touching, talking, rough-housing, riding, laughing and just enjoying spending time with each other. Her friends tell her they admire our relationship. I translate that to be that they want to fuck me hot monkey pornstar style.:D
 
It's the gentle kiss on my forehead, the long embrace out of the blue, the "I Love You" said in the middle of the day, the cup of coffee brought to me while I'm still in bed in the morning, the "wow, your ass looks great in those jeans" as we're walking down the street, the phone call to just say "hi," sharing the laughter over a joke that only the two of us understand kind of things. It's the little things that happen every day that make me smile and think how lucky I am to be with the love of my life. To me, that is romance.
 
Good food for thought.
My wife and I've been together 18 years now (!). I think it has to do with mutual respect and a real desire to do whatever it takes to advance the psycho-emotional and spiritual growth and welfare of the other person, however that tends to manifest.
This attitude leads to a certain amount of willing, joyful self-sacrifice; so then the payback far excedes the investment. A seeming paradox, but it works.
Within this context, which also implies open communication, the most intense, nasty porno-sex can take on an elevated, spiritual significance. Love-making with this intentionality can change the couple, and in some ways, the world that we inject this energy into.
Philosophically yours,
buffdoc
 
romance is when you get layd like ALL the time. not like every week or every day or some shit but like ALL the time.

and when i say all the time.... i mean ALL the time.

seriously tho romance is in definition "as it happens in the storys"

poetic
artistic
beautiful

type of love

like as in... suck me beautiful
 
I think romance is just the way you show or communicate that you love & care for your partner.

Personally, I wouldn't find a dozen red roses romantic. It would piss me off. It's cliched & shows no thought & originality, but I'm weird like that.

In my relationship, romance manifests itself in some goofy ways. Snuggling is romantic to us. I just have to look at him a certain way or make the smallest noise & he'll turn from the computer & know I want my "Favorite Place" (sitting on his lap).

I love funny notes & silly e-mails. I am very attached to my teddy bear & he has my bear leave me notes sometimes that say he asked the bear to tell me how much he loves me.

Caring & concern is romantic. When he looks out for my needs, when he sticks up for me, when he puts my needs/wants ahead of his. -> all those things that show love.
 
That is exactly how my wife and I are. The only time I can remember have making love slowly was when she had her boobs done and that was only cause it hurt when they moved. We both like hard, fast, talking dirty, hair pulling, ass slapping, pound it home sex. I don’t buy flowers never have I think it’s a waist of money they only going to die in a few days anyway. Hell I could buy her a new vibrator for the same price and we can have fun with that for a long time.
They way define romance is the fact we never want to be apart from each other. I have friends who can’t wait till poker night so they can get away from their wives. I think that is sad. I don’t go out often with out my wife because I don’t like to. I have more fun with whatever I am doing if she is there.
Romance is the fact that we are best friends.
 
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