decrease of sex in a long term relationship

[Bikini Mod]

Dunno what to tell you. As I said, the frequency of sex ebbs and flows in any longterm relationship. What concerns me most is that you feel the need to self-medicate to get your mind off of thoughts that really make no sense.

If you KNOW this girl then why would you care what you read on the internet?

 

[markshark]

Dunno what to tell you. As I said, the frequency of sex ebbs and flows in any longterm relationship. What concerns me most is that you feel the need to self-medicate to get your mind off of thoughts that really make no sense.

If you KNOW this girl then why would you care what you read on the internet?

because i over analyze everything to the point that even the faintest possibility of something happening turns to an explosion for me in my brain.

 

[split endz]

Love fades...so does desire

 

[Black Boxster]

1st: Get of the drugs... pain killers are dumb and just fuck with your mind
2nd: LISTEN to her needs and wants..she gets up early, she tired from school...make her a nice dinner and draw her a bath..a little bath salts and oils..candles...give her some "me time"
3rd: When she's all done..dry her off..have a nice heated bottle of oil/lotion ready for a nice relaxing massage. what drives my wife crazy is having her arms, hands, calves and feet rubbed..
4: Don't push the issue of sex...by this time she will either be in the mood, or ready to fall asleep, but let it happen.

repeat as needed.....your not going to get laid every night, but I get laid 5-6 times a week by taking care of my women first. Show sincere interest in her and how she feels and she will get in the mood more often...

And STOP being paranoid about another man.!!!!

 

[markshark]

i usually get off work around 11pm and by then she is ready to go to bed. she also has school from 8 am til 4 pm so i never see her until after im done with work.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Love fades...so does desire

Wrong... you get married for desire, which equals sex.. and NOT LOVE. Love is what you find along the way.

Sex and love are not always one in the same. Sorry to bust all the romantic's bubbles.