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Bad Idea.
This is a loaded question, bro.
I really wish you would have thought things out before you jumped in the pool.
First off, I wouldn't recommend dating a woman with kids anyway, it's not in your best interest because the mother will be thinking of what's best for her kids, not what's best for the relationship. Not knocking that, because a good mother is supposed to put her kids first, but for your purposes tybz28-#2, it's not really ideal.
Secondly, she wants you to warm up to her kids because she is looking for a relationship and stability and she knows as well as most women that a female with two school age children is not what guys look for, it's just not attractive to a single guy. She is rushing things hoping you will adjust to her with marriage being the goal.
Any responsible mother with kids would not force her kids on you and then become resentful because you aren't "warming up to them". It sounds to me like she has a different agenda here and I caution you to think about the choices you make. I don't like how this situation sounds at all.
The age difference isn't so bad, but she's in a different stage of life than you are. She's 30 w/ kids and she likely won't have many more opportunities for a long term relationship before her kids are grown-up. Before you take the bait, know what the fuck you're getting in to, nugga....
Use your head and you'll be fine.
DIV
tybz28-#2 said:
This is a loaded question, bro.
I really wish you would have thought things out before you jumped in the pool.
First off, I wouldn't recommend dating a woman with kids anyway, it's not in your best interest because the mother will be thinking of what's best for her kids, not what's best for the relationship. Not knocking that, because a good mother is supposed to put her kids first, but for your purposes tybz28-#2, it's not really ideal.
Secondly, she wants you to warm up to her kids because she is looking for a relationship and stability and she knows as well as most women that a female with two school age children is not what guys look for, it's just not attractive to a single guy. She is rushing things hoping you will adjust to her with marriage being the goal.
Any responsible mother with kids would not force her kids on you and then become resentful because you aren't "warming up to them". It sounds to me like she has a different agenda here and I caution you to think about the choices you make. I don't like how this situation sounds at all.
The age difference isn't so bad, but she's in a different stage of life than you are. She's 30 w/ kids and she likely won't have many more opportunities for a long term relationship before her kids are grown-up. Before you take the bait, know what the fuck you're getting in to, nugga....
Use your head and you'll be fine.
DIV
