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Damn does everyone cheat these days??

guyver

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everyone cheats seems to me, where i work evryone has been with everyone else, and most are married. is that the way it is where you people work? i dont think you can tust anyone these days. i have always been faithful to whom ever i'm with, but just to think at all the people that would cheat if you put thm in certain situations.
 
babyblue said:
i work in an all ladies gym ;)

TripleV is that you??? Waht are you up to these days?
 
yup..it is unfortunate but everyone cheats. i've been with and know girls who love there boyfriends and been with thme for a long time and still cheat on them.
 
never cheated, never will. It's not worth the heartache you will cause.
 
No. Not everyone cheats. There will always be the temptation to though. There may be some close calls, but not EVERYONE cheats.

However, having sex with a new person is always exciting. After being with my husband for about 18 yrs. I brought up the idea of having a 3-some with another girl for us to try out. Something fun and new and exciting. I think if more couples could realize how much fun there is in including this in a solid relationship, there would be less cheating. Sex is fun. Being with a new person is exciting. Why not do it together instead of hiding shit from each other?
 
You're wrong, everyone does not cheat. I treat people the way I want to be treated myself. I never have, nor will I ever cheat on someone.

I tell them right from the outset, I will NEVER cheat on you. I'd sooner come to you and tell you lets break this off before I'd cheat.
 
VERY difficult topic if taken seriously....My wife left me for a 23 yr old kid she was having an affair with..She was everything to me, and my love for her was un-measurable...Anyway, I have been looking into this, there is more to it than whats on the surface, we could dedicate an entire board to this topic...Primordial Instincts say no to monogamy....Some say marraige is out-dated. The more I see, the more this is making sense to me...Sad, however....but it seems we are so overly stimulated all the time, with so many choices, trying to constantly" up -the- anti", and keep up with the "JONES' "...We spend so much time in the fast lane, looking at all the things we could have, instead of being here now....The Grass may be Greener on the other side....But it is Still Grass, and it will turn brown too, if you let it....
 
AAAHHHH, the cost of watering more than one lawn....Is it worth it in the long run????
 
gsxr1000 said:
I tell them right from the outset, I will NEVER cheat on you. I'd sooner come to you and tell you lets break this off before I'd cheat.

I follow your same creedo, unfortunately, most girls ( even the best ones ) cannot be told this, it's a guaranteed way for a girl to get bored with you. Mind you this is on a very instinctive level, but girls need a subconscious incentive to please you and keep you happy. If they know you will never hurt them, they can unintentionally become selfish.
 
My ex is 37....very beautiful, BB...not pro, but could be....I was with her for 5.5 yrs total..married for 1 yr before the affair....Tried to save it for about 3 months to no avail...suspected an affair, because this was not provoked in any way... Came home one day, and she said, "I want a seperation." When I woke up on the floor, she was out looking for another house..Anyway she bought me out, stayed there with her two daughters..and my son and I moved on...tragic loss...yes she is still with him, she met him at the gym where she works out...He is african-american and very good-looking, thats beside the point tho, however, a shock to entire family and friends....she will be 38 soon, few weeks away..we are not on speaking terms, but Iam thru with the anger part....now its just the loss....
 
response to the 5'-6" thread: my ex's new lover is 5-'6"....Iam 5'-11" at 230lbs @ 10% He is in good shape tho...She is 5'-1" @ 116lbs very muscular...must be something else eh????
 
gsxr1000 said:
You're wrong, everyone does not cheat. I treat people the way I want to be treated myself. I never have, nor will I ever cheat on someone.

I tell them right from the outset, I will NEVER cheat on you. I'd sooner come to you and tell you lets break this off before I'd cheat.

Yeah but the problem is you probably will never know they have cheated, then they come home to you like nothing has ever happened, if people would just ta about what they needed then it would solve alot of problems, some are hard to talk about, believe me, i still have problems talking about stuff.
 
if you cheat there is no relationship. a women who cheats is a peice of shit, a guy who cheats is too but its just doesnt seem as bad, is it just me?
 
either way, the girls I'm attracted to (perfect 10's) often have issues. Plus I don't date non virgins. Girls who have slept with only one guy are allowed by explanation. Generally at my age, 21, girls who are still virgins are a. ugly or b. psycho. My ex is slowly falling into the b category.
 
Krazzylad said:
Sex and love are 2 diffent thing, most people cheat the one who dont for the most part just dont have the oppertunity

This actually makes great sense when translated into English.
j/k broly!
 
Well put Krazzylad .... explains it in a nut shell ... for some of us it ain't a love thing ... it's a sex thing! After a while, something different helps to spice things up a bit.
 
Been cheated on!!!! Hated it.

Lost a lot of respect for them and even though I tried to get over it and work though it...I could never trust them again.

B True
 
Being a woman in the "dating scene".....I don't trust anyone but myself. Marriage in this era is hopeless and does'nt have any meaning anymore. It is just a contract and an excuse for the woman to have a diamond ring.
I am so sick and tired of men comming up to me to get my phone number and I tell them I have a boyfriend (I don't, but I just dont want their number) and then the typical response I get back is "so?"
"Does he live with you?"

I am thinking what the fuck does it matter? He is still my boyfriend. 9 times out of 10 I get this response. wtf??

That just goes to show me what kind of a boyfriend they would be if I were stupid enough to actually give them my number and we became serious.

In my opinion 99% of everyone is fucking the other 99% percent, and the other 1% might be faithfull... but i seriously doubt that too.......
 
People believe way too much in fidelity. A man is not naturally suited to stay with one woman. The more pussy a guy gets the less he cares about any single one. Even when I care about a girl I still want to have sex with others.

I don't really understand it from a female perspective but I imagine it's not too incredibly different.

I know comments like mine bother a lot of people, but in my opinion most of the haters are insecure. People cheat all the time and they always will --- get over it. Besides that, no one is free of deceptive tendencies and we all have to lie sometimes.

Hating on someone who cheats usually looks to me like evidence of sour grapes and a lack of experience in life. Look at it from all perspectives before you let your fears and insecurities cause you to condemn someone you don't really understand.
 
b fold the truth said:
Been cheated on!!!! Hated it.

Lost a lot of respect for them and even though I tried to get over it and work though it...I could never trust them again.

B True
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I can sympathize. Just found out my recent ex cheated on me. He's the first guy I let my guard down with in my whole life and look what happens... I lived through infidelity my whole childhood, so I'm not very trustworthy, but I decided I really loved this guy and to let him know it and trust him. I was wrong.

I think very few people are faithful... sucks for those of us who are!
 
b fold the truth said:
Been cheated on!!!! Hated it.

Lost a lot of respect for them and even though I tried to get over it and work though it...I could never trust them again.

B True

I think it would be hard to trust again after someone cheated, they are no way i could work through it.. tell her to hit the fucking road.
 
Determined Girl said:
Being a woman in the "dating scene".....I don't trust anyone but myself. Marriage in this era is hopeless and does'nt have any meaning anymore. It is just a contract and an excuse for the woman to have a diamond ring.
I am so sick and tired of men comming up to me to get my phone number and I tell them I have a boyfriend (I don't, but I just dont want their number) and then the typical response I get back is "so?"
"Does he live with you?"

I am thinking what the fuck does it matter? He is still my boyfriend. 9 times out of 10 I get this response. wtf??

That just goes to show me what kind of a boyfriend they would be if I were stupid enough to actually give them my number and we became serious.

In my opinion 99% of everyone is fucking the other 99% percent, and the other 1% might be faithfull... but i seriously doubt that too.......



You've obviously been cheated on, ehhhh?
 
I never cheated on my girl for over 2 years when we were together, I really loved her and still do now. BUT the way things turned out I might as well of cheated on her its all BS in the end anyway
 
A LITTLE ZEN FOR THIS POST: minds are joined; bodies are not. Only by assigning to the mind the properties of the body, does separation seem to be possible. And it is the mind that seems to be fragmented and private and alone.......RELATIONSHIPS truely at any degree, are nothing more than a state of mind.....
 
I had plenty of opportunities to fuck other women when I was married but I didn't do it. That's 10 years. Give me a medal.
 
biteme said:
I had plenty of opportunities to fuck other women when I was married but I didn't do it. That's 10 years. Give me a medal.

Because you have to live with yourself, bro. I`m married 7 years and never even thought about it. Call it boring or whatever but I can wait to get home and get laid.

If not, then you should`nt have married her.
 
plornive said:
People believe way too much in fidelity. A man is not naturally suited to stay with one woman. The more pussy a guy gets the less he cares about any single one. Even when I care about a girl I still want to have sex with others.

I don't really understand it from a female perspective but I imagine it's not too incredibly different.

I know comments like mine bother a lot of people, but in my opinion most of the haters are insecure. People cheat all the time and they always will --- get over it. Besides that, no one is free of deceptive tendencies and we all have to lie sometimes.

Hating on someone who cheats usually looks to me like evidence of sour grapes and a lack of experience in life. Look at it from all perspectives before you let your fears and insecurities cause you to condemn someone you don't really understand.


say what you will. But there is no excuse for cheating. Yea Yea Yea man was never ment for one partner yadda yadda yadda.....


If you want to fuck around...then dont get into a committed relationship. bottom line.
 
gsxr1000 said:




You've obviously been cheated on, ehhhh?


I have never been cheated on because I have never been in a committed relationship.....

But if I WAS in a committed relationship and I caught my man cheating or even had the slightest inkling he was cheating I would rip his fucking balls off, go to the food processer blend them and shove the blended shit down his fucking throat...... :D
 
Determined Girl said:



I have never been cheated on because I have never been in a committed relationship.....

But if I WAS in a committed relationship and I caught my man cheating or even had the slightest inkling he was cheating I would rip his fucking balls off, go to the food processer blend them and shove the blended shit down his fucking throat...... :D
Yeah , but would you break up with him?:fro:
 
Mandinka2 said:

Yeah , but would you break up with him?:fro:


YES. There are no second chances. Once a cheater always a cheater. If I were stupid enough to stay with him, there is no telling how many times he would do it again---he would probably just get more advanced in not getting caught. :D
 
I can cheat on my girlfriend as much as I want, but she can't cheat on me. If she cheats, she is immediately gone.
 
I would be wrecked if I found out my wife was cheating on me. Not so much for the betrayal but the fact I have stressed thru-out our relationship that honesty is the Only policy. I would never cheat on my wife. If our relationship came to that point I would ask for a seperation and tell her I was going to see someone else. I hope that she would do the same for me if it came to that. Besides, I think we said "Until death do we part" so one of us will have to leave this earth! (Joking)
 
Never cheated, been cheated on though. I know it happens to people around me all the time.

Another thing I hate is people who have no respect for other people's relationships.
 
The people who said yes are so wrong. before I was married, I never considered cheating on my girlfriends, and now that I am married, I still don't consider it. And it isn't for lack of opporotunity, like some people said. Most of the guys here are just offering a cop-out. Some serious low-lifes here. I'll go back to anabolic now, I don't like it here. :D
 
Cheating is a downward death spiral for a relationship... better to never start if you give a shit about staying together.

DrG
 
I've been married for six years on the July 5th. Not only have I never cheated but I've never thought about it.
That's the reason I married her because I love her and would never do anything that would hurt her.
Now that being said A new piece is nice every once in while, but I lucky and have a bi wife. Ever that being the case she is comfortable with fucking some other chick. So i respect that and we have rules. When we have 3-somes everything goes but penetration.
Even if I didn't get to do this I wouldn't cheat.
 
AND to my despair, " All is fair in LOVE and WAR"....VIXEN, karma is a reality isnt it????......yes.
 
Determined Girl said:
But if I WAS in a committed relationship and I caught my man cheating or even had the slightest inkling he was cheating I would rip his fucking balls off, go to the food processer blend them and shove the blended shit down his fucking throat...... :D

SOOOO with you there girl. I've said this to DrG so he knows better - ha ha.
Go Lorena Bobitt, my hero.
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st8k_lover said:
I would be wrecked if I found out my wife was cheating on me. Not so much for the betrayal but the fact I have stressed thru-out our relationship that honesty is the Only policy. I would never cheat on my wife. If our relationship came to that point I would ask for a seperation and tell her I was going to see someone else. I hope that she would do the same for me if it came to that. Besides, I think we said "Until death do we part" so one of us will have to leave this earth! (Joking)

This actually could have been written by DrG and I thought it was. It's how we both feel about our marriage. Honesty IS the only way, I'd rather have him just leave me than cheat (and vice versa) and yes, one of us will definitely have to leave this earth...
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QUOTE]Originally posted by drgoodbody
Cheating is a downward death spiral for a relationship... better to never start if you give a shit about staying together.[/QUOTE]

Right back at ya, babe. :)

-MrsG
 
I have some Vietnamese friends, Females are considered to be your personal slave that do everything for you in the household, BUT one exception, if they catch their man cheating he told me, tradition is that vietnamese females cut off their husbands dick.

He told me that he cheated with a dutch female once and ever since he wait until his wife sleeps before he starts sleeping and he holds his dick with two hands, the guilty feeling bastard ;-)
 
masterdoshiki said:
i choose not to fall into any kind of obligating relationships because i know i will cheat on that person.


that is the best thing to do. Now...if the rest of the lowlife men and women in the world could grasp that concept there would be alot less heartbreak in the world. :rolleyes:
 
I despise cheates, I would never date a girl that has cheated in the past, even if she claims she changed and it wont happn again ad she felt bad, yda yada, Im not a person of second hances any longer, I will never cheat, I could not live with myelf if I did, I HAVE MORALS AND PRINCIPLES!! and I expect the same of anyone I would get serious with
 
wont get fooled again

Austin316 said:
I despise cheates, I would never date a girl that has cheated in the past, even if she claims she changed and it wont happn again ad she felt bad, yda yada, Im not a person of second hances any longer, I will never cheat, I could not live with myelf if I did, I HAVE MORALS AND PRINCIPLES!! and I expect the same of anyone I would get serious with
AHHH YES, she told me that she would never do that again, and that she never wanted those feelings of living a lie with secerets or hidden agendas.....I gave her my heart and soul and my trust.....MORALS AND PRINCIPALS???? are these nothing more than a compromising contract???....was my relationship an illusion??...right now I couldnt tell you....When you you believe in something, you have made it true for you. No belief is neutral. Every one has the power to dictate each decision you make. For a decision is a conclusion, based on everything that you believe. The recognition that you do not understand is a prerequisite for undoing your false ideas...
 
Im not a saint, but obiously I hold myself to a higher standard my friend, any argument made for cheaters is nothing solid, merely excuses, its as simple as i would not want to becheated on, so why would I do that to another person? it's evil, and yea if all cheaters end up rotting in hell, no sympathy here//I do not have false ideas, I play it safe, and I know myself
 
Cheating is so freakin easy , you get your guaranteed pussy plus u get extras all da time , and if you try to be faithful and find out you been cheated on you get screwed but if you cheat n she cheats then it dunbt hurt that much , but 9 out of 10 times ur gunna get cheated on . So everytime u think a grl wanna ffuck screw her then go home and screw your bitch
 
no flame Austin...agree with you, just pointing out how some people get where they are... and are able to justify it......I have Karma on my side and some insight, that helps me deal with it.....
 
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