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Communication during Sex

DIVISION

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In my experience I've had to really encourage the females I've been with to let me know what feels better and what they'd like at certain times. I know all the basics and can go by feel and the vibe, but it would help if women were more sexually assertive at times......(ie. taking me by the balls in certain situations, letting me know what they are in the mood for). I know it might seem contrived, but as in all things if communication is clear, it makes the experience that much more intimate and complete.

I'd appreciate comments from both sexes on this......preferably mature.




DIV

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I think younger women tend to be less vocal about this....you need to teach them to talk to you and build some trust there first.....The more you talk to her the more she will talk back....however some women are not going to be aggressive in bed.
 
Gymgurl said:
I think younger women tend to be less vocal about this....you need to teach them to talk to you and build some trust there first.....The more you talk to her the more she will talk back....however some women are not going to be aggressive in bed.

Yes, I know, Gymgurl....

However, I want them to do it out of their own volition......if I have to mentor them the whole way, it kind of spoils some of the innocence and sexual exploration they must learn along the way.

I want to help as little as possible, in order for them to empower themselves and learn to speak up about what they want.....

I want them to get over their fears and insecurities......(ie the words, phrases, moaning, growling, screaming).



DIV

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I am with a girl currently that I feel that I can say anything to in bed. Absolutely anything. She does the same in return. It is the most awesome sex I have ever had. A totally connected feeling. When they won't convey their feelings to you, it feels like you are merely using their vagina as nothing more than an apparatus to jack off with. I want someone in the moment with me.
 
marshallmadman said:
I am with a girl currently that I feel that I can say anything to in bed. Absolutely anything. She does the same in return. It is the most awesome sex I have ever had. A totally connected feeling. When they won't convey their feelings to you, it feels like you are merely using their vagina as nothing more than an apparatus to jack off with. I want someone in the moment with me.

^^^Now THAT'S GANGSTA! :fro:

Props and Respect, BabyMarshall....

I'm happy for ya'......



DIV

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It feels strange telling someone what to do during sex, it kind of takes out that magical moment and it turns it into a sex learning class. Using moans is ok but too much talking will probably interrupt the intimacy of the sex.
 
Hey Div,

As you know me and hubby have been together for 16 years. We started young(I was 17) and it wasn't comfortable for me to be "vocal" about things. But I guess in time things change. Now I have no problems telling him where to go and what I want LOL.............I do agree with GymGirl though, some women will NEVER be aggresive and will never feel comfortable speaking\acting out. I feel "good" sex doesn't really kick in until your 30's anyway. That's usually when you feel most comfortable with your body and who you are. Now this doesn't apply to everyone it just worked that wat for us, or I should say me. Hope my $.02 helped you out ;)

Ms.
 
Firdst time together not always easy.. but i think you have to be able to express ikes and dislikes otherwsie yuo will enver be truly satisfied.. and i also think age does have alot to do with it.. as gymgirl said

also good to laugh.. whent hings don't always go as planned..
That's another thread :)
 
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