Let's see-if you're married, absolutely wrong. Case closed. No discussion necessary. If you're just dating, have the balls to break up with the other person. That's the best thing you can do. There is no justification for cheating, even though I get what you're saying. I've been there, you've got something good in some way and you're know it and you don't want to end it, but then there's something else, someone else, offering up something different and it's just so damn tempting. Sure you could go for it, you could "hit that" but then what? First of all, it could suck, I mean the sex could just be plain bad. So now you're going to feel all guilty and shitty (if you have a conscience) for bad sex. Second, of the guys that I have known who have cheated-there is a period of major ass kissing involved immediately after the event.If you're good at this it will cost money. Now if the cheat sex was bad you've just been screwed AGAIN. If the cheat sex was good, then you're still out money. Third, and most importantly, you are running the risk of destroying something that is so important to you that you couldn't give it up in the first place. If it was that important and that dear to you WHY RISK IT ANYWAY???? Do ya see the circle that's about to take shape?