Cheating On Your Loved One

[AziaReign]

Well, I feel like being a bitch today and of course every woman is entitled to it so FUCK OFF mrstein.

 

[TheGame2001]

hmmm

Well I was cheated on by my wife after 8 years of marriage. I didn't cheat. I came out of it feeling good about myself and my morals. She can live her life as a slut but not me. I'm since remarried and will not cheat on her either and trust she will not cheat on me. If she does , then I was wrong but I will not lose my trust that their are decent people in this world.

God, I'd hate to live my life as a cheater. Those are the people that deep down don't feel to good about themselfs. But would never admit it.

BUT WOW! You OWN TANNING SALONS!! WOW! NO WONDER THE WOMEN CAN'T TURN YOU DOWN! WOW, YOUR LIKE A GOD OR SOMETHING!!!!!!! WOW!!!!!

 

[Casablanca]

All I have to say is : Blame it on two things; that damn Testosterone shit and lack of morals. I believe that guys have it in them to cheat, it's their biological program to do so: testosterone... I watched some TV show where a transexual said:"I'm so glad to be rid of testosterone, I was always thinking about sex, I hated it" At least, he was aware of it... The bottom line is, MOST guys are ... biologically pre-deteremined to cheat, the rest is up to morals, and same thing for women. the formula is:"No Morals + perversion = Cheating" add testosterone and you get a man-whore... I need some advice on what happened to me this memorial day weekend.

I was invited to some great house party in the Hamptons. I was having a great time, there were about 5 bedrooms in the house. My friend Jen and her boy had rented a room there. I ended up getting reallly friendly with a group of people in another room. This guy George was very nice and we talked for hours with him and his friend. His wife introduced herself and I found her awesome. By then, everyone was all intoxicated. Anyways, There were about 3 married man in this room and we were all talking politics and shit. I could tell that they really enjoyed my company but I did not think anything more than that, all the wives seemed to enjoy my company as well. Anyways, someone asked me for my business card, so I had to walk out to my room to pick it up. The George guy followed me there, and once I got in the room he closed the door and tried to kiss me.. I pushed him away and felt terrible, 'cos i REALLY respected his wife, she was awesome. So i told him "dude you're married, what's the deal with you guys are you swingers?" he said " No, i just do my own thing and she knows.." and he added" don't you want me to do this and that and that and this to you"... the guy was attractive so I did say "sounds very good, but i'm sorry, eventhough you and you're wife are cool with this, i'm not, i just can not" so i was walking out of the room and he kept on trying, while he was saying "don't you want me to lick you all over blabalbbal" i was opening the door and his wife walks in with her eyes wide open, i could see the terror in her eyes.... I understood right away that this couple was just a normal married couple and that he was a piece of shit lier, he abused of her trust and easy going attitude to get me to believe that they slept with other people. She got in the room and closed the door. When she got out, i asked her to talk to her. I said that nothing had happened. She said "what the hell were you doing behind a closed door with my husband. " I didn't wanna hurt her too much, and say: "your husband was following me like a little dog everywhere i went.." i just said," we just happened to end up there and i would have never ended up there if i wasn't told that you guys did your own thing " she said "well i YOU thought we were doing our own thing, you should have asked me" I said, "however, i did not do anything, regardless of the fact that i was convinced you were cool. She just told me to stay the hell away from her husband. I felt like shit, eventhough i hadn't done anything. Once my hosts found out that there was some tention, i was asked to leave the house the next day... i felt like shit, and i had not done anything. My friend who invited hasn't called me yet. Why the hell do i have to feel bad about something that i haven't done? why did people look at me as if it was partly my fault? does this mean that married man are known to be attracted to other women and that other women are held repsonsible for married men's acts? this sucks, i'd love some feed back.

 

[Alpine]

I've done when I was with Tommy. Only because he was cheating on me. Tommy caught me with the other man and had a shit fit about it too, but I looked at him and said how does it feel?

Oh shit! That is a rude ass way to get back at him for sure! Brutal!

 

[Alpine]

I need some advice on what happened to me this memorial day weekend.

I was invited to some great house party in the Hamptons. I was having a great time, there were about 5 bedrooms in the house. My friend Jen and her boy had rented a room there. I ended up getting reallly friendly with a group of people in another room. This guy George was very nice and we talked for hours with him and his friend. His wife introduced herself and I found her awesome. By then, everyone was all intoxicated. Anyways, There were about 3 married man in this room and we were all talking politics and shit. I could tell that they really enjoyed my company but I did not think anything more than that, all the wives seemed to enjoy my company as well. Anyways, someone asked me for my business card, so I had to walk out to my room to pick it up. The George guy followed me there, and once I got in the room he closed the door and tried to kiss me.. I pushed him away and felt terrible, 'cos i REALLY respected his wife, she was awesome. So i told him "dude you're married, what's the deal with you guys are you swingers?" he said " No, i just do my own thing and she knows.." and he added" don't you want me to do this and that and that and this to you"... the guy was attractive so I did say "sounds very good, but i'm sorry, eventhough you and you're wife are cool with this, i'm not, i just can not" so i was walking out of the room and he kept on trying, while he was saying "don't you want me to lick you all over blabalbbal" i was opening the door and his wife walks in with her eyes wide open, i could see the terror in her eyes.... I understood right away that this couple was just a normal married couple and that he was a piece of shit lier, he abused of her trust and easy going attitude to get me to believe that they slept with other people. She got in the room and closed the door. When she got out, i asked her to talk to her. I said that nothing had happened. She said "what the hell were you doing behind a closed door with my husband. " I didn't wanna hurt her too much, and say: "your husband was following me like a little dog everywhere i went.." i just said," we just happened to end up there and i would have never ended up there if i wasn't told that you guys did your own thing " she said "well i YOU thought we were doing our own thing, you should have asked me" I said, "however, i did not do anything, regardless of the fact that i was convinced you were cool. She just told me to stay the hell away from her husband. I felt like shit, eventhough i hadn't done anything. Once my hosts found out that there was some tention, i was asked to leave the house the next day... i felt like shit, and i had not done anything. My friend who invited hasn't called me yet. Why the hell do i have to feel bad about something that i haven't done? why did people look at me as if it was partly my fault? does this mean that married man are known to be attracted to other women and that other women are held repsonsible for married men's acts? this sucks, i'd love some feed back.

 

[Alpine]

Casablanca

It sounds like your getting the short end of the stick in that situation. The "married" guy probably turned the story around on you and made you look like the aggressor. That's probably why you were asked to leave. I'm sure his friends agreed with him because of the fact that he IS married. The married woman might have even thought you were flirting with her husband because it sounds like you were the center of attention in that situation. That dude is a piece of shit, plain and simple! You shouldn't feel bad about what happened. Keep your head up and don't worry about it! Not all men are assholes like that guy! Oh yeah, I'm sure if his wife has half a brain, she won't trust her man as much as she did before. If she doesn't change the way she thinks about her hubby, just let her remain in ignorrant bliss. Either way, let it roll off your back! YOU are the one that knows what really happened that day!