Caught her ass red handed!

[chesty]

She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you

So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.

She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.

So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.

She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.

The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.

 

[borris]

hahahahahhahahahahh oh man boy, you got some cold hard facts on her ass


thats rough though that she tried playing you like that

 

[nefertiti]

Edit: I didn't read that carefully enough...it seems you are wanting her to trip herself up....whatever you've got to do, but don't let this slide.

 

[chesty]

I know. I was like I can't fucking believe that she is still denying. In one her emails to me after the fact she after saying she is sorry we are breaking up if I know anything that she doesn't please let her know. Either she is trying to be crafty thinking I will not be able to prove anything thus proving her point or she thinks she has been caught and wants to know what I know if anything.

 

[Dial_tone]

She's Cheatin On You, Bro! Omgwtfbbq!

 

[ponyfitness]

I'd sit across from her, hand her the email, tell her to never contact you again and walk out. Forget her.

 

[Razorguns]

you're a marine. don't they teach you to be strong and a real man. and here you are all caught up in drama and shit. allowing her to control your life.

if she's fucking up your life YOU are allowing it. so it's your fault. If she's not right for you, or has problems - move on already. otherwise: born, have drama, die. the end. is that what u want your life to be?

r

 

[chesty]

OH hell no i am not letting it slide. I want her to understand that she is to blame for the break up my supposed insecurity and not trusting. I didn't lie to her, I didn't go behind her back, I have a spine. She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc

 

[borris]

honestly bro, I wouldn't even waste time hearing an explanation for her ass, if it was me I would just leave the email on her dresser and bounce

obviously she's still in love with her ex (lying about going on trips)...... I wouldn't even bother sitting down talking with her just to hear her side and watch her make another excuse. seriously..

I can see it already.... she's going to blame you for being this and that and this and that in your relationship and still make it out to be your fault... women like that are too predictable

 

[chesty]

I agree, I am being more devious than you think. I want to see the expression her face when she knows she was caught red handed!

 

[chesty]

yeah, I know gotta go stick it too her

 

[puddlemonkey]

I hate being right all the time.




Oh wait, no I don't.

 

[borris]

yo bro, you should copy n paste the email she sent her EX, I'm kinda interested

 

[SaladFork]

Chesty, sooooo many chicks out there do not err waste anymore time or grief over this lame pigwhore (as KB says). Do what you need for closure, then RUN and don't look back. GL Mayn.

 

[heavy_duty]

post the e-mail here or fuck off wasting our time.

 

[jerseyrugger76]

I'd sit across from her, hand her the email, tell her to never contact you again and walk out. Forget her.

I'd do much the same, only I'd invite her to meet for dinner, let her chit chat for a while, order a whole bunch of shit, THEN follow the instructions above and, of course, stick her with the check.

 

[ceo]

honestly bro, I wouldn't even waste time hearing an explanation for her ass, if it was me I would just leave the email on her dresser and bounce

obviously she's still in love with her ex (lying about going on trips)...... I wouldn't even bother sitting down talking with her just to hear her side and watch her make another excuse. seriously..

I can see it already.... she's going to blame you for being this and that and this and that in your relationship and still make it out to be your fault... women like that are too predictable

TITCR...maybe add a little note saying something like, "look at the email I got! Oops! Guess you fucked that up too!"

 

[silverskyline]

TRIZO IS RIGHT CHESTY, from on Marine to another, not that it matters but from some who has been there. That shit hurts especially when you love her but you gotta make a clean break before it gets worse.

If in the email to her ex she said "I love you" dude theres no workin things out she'll keep goin back. I wish the best for ya man but shit that kind of scandalis this is not worht your time and energy not to mention the emotions you put forth to get fucked over.

best of luck Devil

 

[Megalomaniac]

I can't believe the answers on this thread, it is like none of you have ever been cheated on. From experience looking back I say act like everything is normal, go to her house and fuck her really good one last time. Then when you are finished simply get up(don't lay there) and leave. As you are walking out look back at her and say "this just isn't working out. I'm going to see other women, women who will be good for my future." Then leave, don't listen to what she has to say, don't stop and do shit, just leave and go find a better women using all that confidence you gained from the situation.

That is how I wish I handled my situations like the one you are in, hind sight is always 20/20 and I'm telling you what the chart says.

 

[borris]

I can't believe the answers on this thread, it is like none of you have ever been cheated on. From experience looking back I say act like everything is normal, go to her house and fuck her really good one last time. Then when you are finished simply get up(don't lay there) and leave. As you are walking out look back at her and say "this just isn't working out. I'm going to see other women, women who will be good for my future." Then leave, don't listen to what she has to say, don't stop and do shit, just leave and go find a better women using all that confidence you gained from the situation.

That is how I wish I handled my situations like the one you are in, hind sight is always 20/20 and I'm telling you what the chart says.

If I dated a girl for awhile and put time n effort into our relationship then found out with 100% proof that she is still fucking her ex-boyfriend the last thing I would want to go do is go have sex with her.

 

[puddlemonkey]

If I dated a girl for awhile and put time n effort into our relationship then found out with 100% proof that she is still fucking her ex-boyfriend the last thing I would want to go do is go have sex with her.

Agreed. Not exactly a turn on.

 

[Megalomaniac]

If I dated a girl for awhile and put time n effort into our relationship then found out with 100% proof that she is still fucking her ex-boyfriend the last thing I would want to go do is go have sex with her.

? Why because your emotions will limit you from having sex? Because she is fucking someone else?

I say it is time to get over her so that means to throw the emotions out the window, first problem solved. She has fucked others before you, during your relationship, why not hit it again. Second issue solved.

 

[ceo]

Agreed. Not exactly a turn on.

unless it's punishing, hate sex, KB style.

 

[silverskyline]

unless it's punishing, hate sex, KB style.

hahah wow KB really made a name for him self with that post.

Whatever dude bitchs just aint worth it most times, and if you have found one you know 100 percent is than you found something thats tough to come by.

It happens all to much but you gotta say fuck it and move on, cause when you do you'll be a lot better off and not wasting time.

 

[borris]

? Why because your emotions will limit you from having sex? Because she is fucking someone else?

I say it is time to get over her so that means to throw the emotions out the window, first problem solved. She has fucked others before you, during your relationship, why not hit it again. Second issue solved.

yeah dude, if I put months and time and heart into a relationship then the same day found out she was seeing some other dudes, I would have a hard time putting my lips and dick in her.... you don't just throw emotions you had over a girl out the window in one day, that is just BS, if you can get over someone that quick you obviously didn't care for her that much in the first place...

IMO, I don't considering having sex with my girlfriend "hitting it"... nor would I want to "hit it" one last time if I found out my GF was pulling some crazy shit like that bitch was pulling... to each his own though

 

[Wulfgar]

Do what i did with my last cheating whore

I caught them fucking in her house one night.

Reached in my pocket, flipped him a penny and said "keep it, its all she is worth"

and never saw or heard anything from them again.

 

[Megalomaniac]

yeah dude, if I put months and time and heart into a relationship then the same day found out she was seeing some other dudes, I would have a hard time putting my lips and dick in her.... you don't just throw emotions you had over a girl out the window in one day, that is just BS, if you can get over someone that quick you obviously didn't care for her that much in the first place...

IMO, I don't considering having sex with my girlfriend "hitting it"... nor would I want to "hit it" one last time if I found out my GF was pulling some crazy shit like that bitch was pulling... to each his own though

Here is the way I see that.(from experience) You fall for a girl using your mind(not heart, there is no such thing) and now you realize that it isn't going to work. Use that same mind and achieve mind control on the situation. Why let you mind control you when you can control your mind? I'm not saying live life like a robot, I'm just saying it is time to handle this situation like a robot.
As for your statement about not caring for her, I say that is BS. The BS is you making a judgement on what my minds capability is

 

[SaladFork]

yeah dude, if I put months and time and heart into a relationship then the same day found out she was seeing some other dudes, I would have a hard time putting my lips and dick in her.... you don't just throw emotions you had over a girl out the window in one day, that is just BS, if you can get over someone that quick you obviously didn't care for her that much in the first place...

IMO, I don't considering having sex with my girlfriend "hitting it"... nor would I want to "hit it" one last time if I found out my GF was pulling some crazy shit like that bitch was pulling... to each his own though

Borris knows what's up! Only thing I would be 'Hitting' is her ass with my foot... dumb pigwhore.

 

[digimon7068]

Do what i did with my last cheating whore

I caught them fucking in her house one night.

Reached in my pocket, flipped him a penny and said "keep it, its all she is worth"

and never saw or heard anything from them again.

i figured you would have punched him unconscious and then put the pennies on his eyelids. . .i'm somewhat disappointed. . .

 

[borris]

Do what i did with my last cheating whore

I caught them fucking in her house one night.

Reached in my pocket, flipped him a penny and said "keep it, its all she is worth"

and never saw or heard anything from them again.

lol, how many girlfriends have you caught cheating on you??? That's like the fourth time I heard a story about some ex fucking you over

 

[Wulfgar]

4 all posted n EF at some time or another

1: ended violently, did a stint in prison
2: ended with her pregnant with other dudes kid. no violence, figured she was fucked anyways
3: ended with more violence, back in the can
4: kinda got over it..kept the penny with me for the last few months for when the time came I found em fuckin

 

[digimon7068]

lol, how many girlfriends have you caught cheating on you??? That's like the fourth time I heard a story about some ex fucking you over

i s'pose even the kinky bitches get tired of getting hurled on after a while

 

[Wulfgar]

i s'pose even the kinky bitches get tired of getting hurled on after a while

maybe
I got one now who likes it when I put her on a choke collar and force her to drink out of dog dishes while I whip her ass with a paddle and tell her what a whore she is.


but is neither here nor there
I was doing good the last few years! the recent breakup was like 1 month ago

 

[borris]

4 all posted n EF at some time or another

1: ended violently, did a stint in prison
2: ended with her pregnant with other dudes kid. no violence, figured she was fucked anyways
3: ended with more violence, back in the can
4: kinda got over it..kept the penny with me for the last few months for when the time came I found em fuckin

which number was that girl who sent you pics of some dude titty fucking her with his 10 incher?

 

[digimon7068]

maybe
I got one now who likes it when I put her on a choke collar and force her to drink out of dog dishes while I whip her ass with a paddle and tell her what a whore she is.

mommy? izat you??

 

[fistfullofsteel]

wtf, you should have gotten rid of her like she is toxic sewage.

 

[Wulfgar]

which number was that girl who sent you pics of some dude titty fucking her with his 10 incher?

2.

 

[ceo]

maybe
I got one now who likes it when I put her on a choke collar and force her to drink out of dog dishes while I whip her ass with a paddle and tell her what a whore she is.


but is neither here nor there
I was doing good the last few years! the recent breakup was like 1 month ago

don't forget about the one you ass rape while flushing her head in the toilet!!!!

 

[Big Rick Rock]

-Tell her nothing about what you know. Just break up with her and tell her you want to date other people.

-Catch her in the act and scare the shit out of them. Nothing crazy, juts shock them by showing up to their date. "So, how did you daddy do on the back 9" Say something slick to her man on the way out like "I came on her face a lot... Inside of her too... Get her checked out" then walk away.

-Wait until after the weekend and tell her you met somebody and are in love and want to move on.


What ever you do. WHATEVER YOU DO. Do NOT waste your time trying to talk to and make her feel bad about cheating and lying. She wont. She does not give a fuck about you, your words will have no long-term impact in on her. You can try to let her know how much she hurt you and all that fuzzy shit, but she wont really care at all. She'll just sit there acting like she cares but just waiting for you to STFU so she can call her other guy and finally be with him.
If you want her to be sorry and hurt as you have...
She will only be sorry if she gets caught in the act with the new guy there OR if she gets tossed in the trash suddenly and without warning. Like this whole time she thinks she is being slick cheating, then you go and say "I'm in love with another woman. She completes me, I can't do this to you anymore." < That will blow her fucking mind.

 

[Wulfgar]

don't forget about the one you ass rape while flushing her head in the toilet!!!!

dude those girls were not gf's

 

[JarheadChiro]

Chesty, I'm buyin at the Tilted Kilt...

Lets get our drink on.

 

[borris]

-Tell her nothing about what you know. Just break up with her and tell her you want to date other people.

-Catch her in the act and scare the shit out of them. Nothing crazy, juts shock them by showing up to their date. "So, how did you daddy do on the back 9" Say something slick to her man on the way out like "I came on her face a lot... Inside of her too... Get her checked out" then walk away.

-Wait until after the weekend and tell her you met somebody and are in love and want to move on.


What ever you do. WHATEVER YOU DO. Do NOT waste your time trying to talk to and make her feel bad about cheating and lying. She wont. She does not give a fuck about you, your words will have no long-term impact in on her. You can try to let her know how much she hurt you and all that fuzzy shit, but she wont really care at all. She'll just sit there acting like she cares but just waiting for you to STFU so she can call her other guy and finally be with him.
If you want her to be sorry and hurt as you have...
She will only be sorry if she gets caught in the act with the new guy there OR if she gets tossed in the trash suddenly and without warning. Like this whole time she thinks she is being slick cheating, then you go and say "I'm in love with another woman. She completes me, I can't do this to you anymore." < That will blow her fucking mind.

I think you makde some great idea's up and have the best scenarios to get her back so far, especially the "So, how did you daddy do on the back 9" lol.... I can't agree 100% on the bolded parts though.. I mean if he goes and tells his girl that "he's in love with someone else" the first thing she's going to think of is "YES I CAN FINALLY RUN OFF WITH MY EX WITHOUT HURTING CHESTY"..... Yeah it might stun her if you tell her your in love with another girl, but if she's still in love with another dude, I don't think it will have much effect on her emotionally.

 

[BIGBUCK$]

o man that blows lol

 

[Wulfgar]

I think you makde some great idea's up and have the best scenarios to get her back so far.... I can't agree 100% on the bolded parts though.. I mean if he goes and tells his girl that "he's in love with someone else" the first thing she's going to think of is "YES I CAN FINALLY RUN OFF WITH MY EX WITHOUT HURTING CHESTY"..... Yeah it might stun her if you tell her your in love with another girl, but if she's still in love with another dude, I don't think it will have much effect on her emotionally.

I think

honestly, what chesty is doing isnt going to help anyhow

taken from a guy who has been there. revenge isnt satisfying really at all. just leads to problems

Its always the hardest AND best thing to do to just walk away.

 

[borris]

honestly, what chesty is doing isnt going to help anyhow

taken from a guy who has been there. revenge isnt satisfying really at all. just leads to problems

Its always the hardest AND best thing to do to just walk away.

that's why I was saying from the beginning he should just leave the email on her dressing then bounce and never turn back

 

[Megalomaniac]

-Tell her nothing about what you know. Just break up with her and tell her you want to date other people.

-Catch her in the act and scare the shit out of them. Nothing crazy, juts shock them by showing up to their date. "So, how did you daddy do on the back 9" Say something slick to her man on the way out like "I came on her face a lot... Inside of her too... Get her checked out" then walk away.

-Wait until after the weekend and tell her you met somebody and are in love and want to move on.


What ever you do. WHATEVER YOU DO. Do NOT waste your time trying to talk to and make her feel bad about cheating and lying. She wont. She does not give a fuck about you, your words will have no long-term impact in on her. You can try to let her know how much she hurt you and all that fuzzy shit, but she wont really care at all. She'll just sit there acting like she cares but just waiting for you to STFU so she can call her other guy and finally be with him.
If you want her to be sorry and hurt as you have...
She will only be sorry if she gets caught in the act with the new guy there OR if she gets tossed in the trash suddenly and without warning. Like this whole time she thinks she is being slick cheating, then you go and say "I'm in love with another woman. She completes me, I can't do this to you anymore." < That will blow her fucking mind.

This is what I am saying, move on with confidence. Get over the emotions, they are only weakness for you right now.

As for telling the dude the shit like that, if he is me then he won't care. I know every girl I get with has caught loads in her face, been busted in a lot and probably had worse things done to her then I ever thought of.(that one poster said he put a chicks head in the toilet and then fucked her from the back, some guy is in love with that lady somewhere right now).
Don't waste your time with the dude, that is unless you feel the need to let some aggression out. In that case good luck, I hope you can fight. Otherwise just go get laid, I recommend by a foreign girl because they seem to work better for me.

 

[jack sparrow]

Borris is a powerful young Jedi. I echo everything he's said in this thread.

 

[Megalomaniac]

lol, how many girlfriends have you caught cheating on you??? That's like the fourth time I heard a story about some ex fucking you over

LOL at all the dudes who haven't caught their girls cheating. It isn't because they weren't you know.

 

[jerseyrugger76]

4 all posted n EF at some time or another

1: ended violently, did a stint in prison
2: ended with her pregnant with other dudes kid. no violence, figured she was fucked anyways
3: ended with more violence, back in the can
4: kinda got over it..kept the penny with me for the last few months for when the time came I found em fuckin

I'm prolly not reading this right, but are you saying that you actually landed in prison twice because of break ups?

 

[Wulfgar]

Borris is a powerful young Jedi. I echo everything he's said in this thread.

I concur

 

[puddlemonkey]

The most hurtful thing you can do to a woman is act like she doesn't mean anything to you. Don't call her, don't text her, just pretend she doesn't exist. They can't seem to handle that.

 

[Megalomaniac]

honestly, what chesty is doing isnt going to help anyhow

taken from a guy who has been there. revenge isnt satisfying really at all. just leads to problems

Its always the hardest AND best thing to do to just walk away.

I still gotta say you hit it one more time just because you can. Pussy is pussy in this situation and you might as well have it.

 

[borris]

LOL at all the dudes who haven't caught their girls cheating. It isn't because they weren't you know.

i've only had one true girlfriend my whole life but i've had sex with well over 30.. not really the relationship type guy, just got outta college, don't plan on getting married anytime or ever having kids

 

[Wulfgar]

I'm prolly not reading this right, but are you saying that you actually landed in prison twice because of break ups?

ya,
1st one was 3 months
2nd was 5 + community service

both were assault related

i used to not be able to control my temper in my younger years

prison blows..i wouldnt reccomend it


like i said. it is best to walk away. i just lost my cool cause ive seemed to have a knack on catching these girls in the act of physically fucking the other guys. to a young man with a large ego u kind of just see red.

 

[BIGBUCK$]

we dont love thes hoooooooooes

 

[jerseyrugger76]

like i said. it is best to walk away. i just lost my cool cause ive seemed to have a knack on catching these girls in the act of physically fucking the other guys. to a young man with a large ego u kind of just see red.

Can't argue with that!

 

[BIGBUCK$]

i've only had one true girlfriend my whole life but i've had sex with well over 30.. not really the relationship type guy, just got outta college, don't plan on getting married anytime or ever having kids

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJ4WbZH8B-o

 

[borris]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJ4WbZH8B-o

hahah putttttttin dickkkkkkkkkk up in yo sluuuuttttttttttttt


RIP to tha legend

 

[motorol@]

Chesty, I'm buyin at the Tilted Kilt...

Lets get our drink on.

I'll be there in a couple minutes

 

[Spartacus]

I'm assuming your fucking this gal
fuck her one last time

 

[blueta2]

Chesty, I'm confused. She still loves her ex and he still loves her, so why is she with you in the first place? Why isn't she just with him? Why do u think she would be stringing you along?

Was this email sent after you broke up with her? Or did u break up with her after u saw this email?

If you are going to confront her, don't waste your time on immature, useless revenge. If this email proves all that you need to know, just walk away and don't even give her the privliage of knowing.
I understand you need to get you anger out, but my ex cheated on me and I confronted him and he actually convinced me to stay. In retrospect, I wish I had just told him to get lost and used my energy to move on.

 

[Smurfy]

She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you

So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.

She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.

So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.

She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.

The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.

yes you are.
just end it.
move on.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Chesty, I'm confused.

Weren't you one of the women telling him he shouldn't worry, and that he needs to take a look at himself blah blah blah?

 

[Wulfgar]

Chesty, I'm confused. She still loves her ex and he still loves her, so why is she with you in the first place? Why isn't she just with him? Why do u think she would be stringing you along?

Was this email sent after you broke up with her? Or did u break up with her after u saw this email?

If you are going to confront her, don't waste your time on immature, useless revenge. If this email proves all that you need to know, just walk away and don't even give her the privliage of knowing.
I understand you need to get you anger out, but my ex cheated on me and I confronted him and he actually convinced me to stay. In retrospect, I wish I had just told him to get lost and used my energy to move on.

she is with him for the 13 inch wang

 

[Smurfy]

yeah dude, if I put months and time and heart into a relationship then the same day found out she was seeing some other dudes, I would have a hard time putting my lips and dick in her.... you don't just throw emotions you had over a girl out the window in one day, that is just BS, if you can get over someone that quick you obviously didn't care for her that much in the first place...

IMO, I don't considering having sex with my girlfriend "hitting it"... nor would I want to "hit it" one last time if I found out my GF was pulling some crazy shit like that bitch was pulling... to each his own though

wait, i thought you were ok with cheating? Didnt you openly admit to cheating on your gf?

 

[LuluDeren]

She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you

So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.

She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.

So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.

She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.

The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.

I've not read the other responses, but I do know this is your 3rd or 4th thread regarding this woman.

FGS, you have invested far too much time and energy into composing the above scenario. We know you are a good man, YOU know you are a good man, I'm assuming your friends and family know you are a good man. You do not have to prove it to someone who is not worthy.

All you will accomplish with your plan is catering to her ego...your discovery presentation will only convince her of your obsession(real or not) with her and she will exploit that.

Let it go. I know it's hard.

Believe me you may feel you've gotten the upper hand but a person (this woman) so self-absorbed will see it (your plan) as their victory.

 

[blueta2]

Weren't you one of the women telling him he shouldn't worry, and that he needs to take a look at himself blah blah blah?

Yeah and?

He is very insecure and does need to look at himself and why he meets women like this.

 

[blueta2]

All the women in this thread are the voice of reason and all the men are saying to be revengeful.
Move on dude!

 

[Spartacus]

make a list
then move to the next name
I got back burner chciks
previous girlfriends I could get back with
potentials and the scenarios I need to work to get started
like in my mind I got the town in my head and these gals locations and/or where I'm likely to run across them

 

[LuluDeren]

All the women in this thread are the voice of reason and all the men are saying to be revengeful.
Move on dude!

YES! We speak of what we've pulled, er, I mean know.

 

[LuluDeren]

I must add, I just looked at your profile and you don't look 43 at all. You and Spartacus should hit the town.

 

[blueta2]

I must add, I just looked at your profile and you don't look 43 at all. You and Spartacus should hit the town.

who me?

 

[ceo]

I'm assuming your fucking this gal
fuck her one last time

Do it for us. Take one for the EF team.

Then, when you're done, tell her how how glad you are that you know you'll be together forever cuz you both have teh HIV now.

Then walk out and never call/text/talk to her again.

 

[LuluDeren]

who me?

naw, Chesty. But you look loads younger than you are, too.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I say he catch that ass slipping. Regulate on that!

 

[BIGBUCK$]

beat that ass no homo

 

[blueta2]

naw, Chesty. But you look loads younger than you are, too.

Oh phew, thought u were calling me old

 

[gotmilk]

get her some crappy dying flowers and have the flower shop deliver them to her...and print off the email and stick it inside the card....

 

[SaladFork]

Chesty? On your profile it says 'Ex Wives' how many times have you been married?

 

[OUfan]

She sent me an email by accident that she met for her ex bf in which she is expressing her love for him and crap. And like las night she didn't want to see me but in the email they had conversation. She is suppossed to be going to training out of town tomorrow and emailed me that her dad was going with her to golf and she would be back sunday. then in the email she says she will see her ex tomorrow l love you

So without letting her know i got the email, I call her out by asking if she has gone back with her ex boyfriend.

She gets all defensive saying i don't trust her no matter what I say, I'm insecure, and she has not cheated on me. What a fucking bitch.

So I am seeing her at 3:30 to talk to her about "working things out so we don't have to break up cause she said she is sorry we are breaking up (I told her I didn't want to break up either) cant' be with some one who is constantly jumping to conclusions and doesn't trust her.

She agreed to meet. So first, I am going to tell her that i have fallen in love with her and then let her read something I wrote for her a while ago, then see what happens, then ask her to explain this email I was sent and see what happens.

The whole point of this exercise is because I am not insecure, nor needy nor untrusting and that she is the one that has lied, cheated, etc. So it is squarely on her shoulders and not mine.

Same thing happened to me except for it wasn't an ex it was a coworker. She denied it until she was blue in the face until I showed her the printed off e-mail. Broke up after 8 years (she had already cheated on me). Bitch..

 

[samoth]

Dude, if you found what you believe to be dispositive evidence, just walk away. You seem to be ejoying this game.

Oh, BTW -- TOTW.

 

[borris]

wait, i thought you were ok with cheating? Didnt you openly admit to cheating on your gf?

When we first started dating we worked as bartenders, together, in a bar/club 4 nights a week in a college town. We had sex a bunch of times with each other and at the same time we'd still would sleep around with other people (i dunno who she slept because I simply don't care) mostly because we just didn't see each other fitting as a couple ever plus she had some guy. Well time went on and we gradually started to hangout outside work and just became real good friends. Still I was having sex with other girls after work and she was still banging her boyfriend and cheating on him with me at the same time. Long story short she's been my best friend for the last two years, I call her my girl, but we've been seperated from each other so many times in the last two years between summer breaks, her traveling for work, me living 5 hours from her last Spring/Summer that we never put stress on telling each other that "we have to stay faithful to each other the whole time"..... It's just stupid, we both know were too young to make those kind of rules with our schedule... But if I found out she ever had sex with another dude, hell no I wouldn't want to put my lips on her that same day. And i'm sure she'd do the same thing... But I wouldn't ever put stress on her to not be with other guys while i'm gone for 5 months, I just wouldn't ever want to find out if she did.

 

[gotmilk]

Chesty? On your profile it says 'Ex Wives' how many times have you been married?

like a dozen red heads. He's scared of clowns now.

 

[PeterProud]

man up

 

[Razorguns]

She is the one that is the liar, cheat, whore, cunt etc

then let her be. it's her life. you don't own her. you are voting your displeasure of how she is by REMOVING her from her life. If you meet someone on the street you don't like - you simply smile and walk away right?

If someone isn't compatible with you - why is it their fault? You move on and find someone who is. Don't like your job? Quit and find another one. You don't change the corporation to fit your job requirements.

You're not 17. You should've figured this shit out by now.

You can't change people. Say that 100x, then drop and give me 20.

r

 

[needtogetarmy]

I can't believe you are still with this chick.

Why bother meeting with her. Why bother sharing any feelings with her.

She is a lying whore and she is taking you for a ride.

 

[BIGBUCK$]

shes lost the loving feeling

 

[Razorguns]

I can't believe the answers on this thread, it is like none of you have ever been cheated on. From experience looking back I say act like everything is normal, go to her house and fuck her really good one last time. Then when you are finished simply get up(don't lay there) and leave. As you are walking out look back at her and say "this just isn't working out. I'm going to see other women, women who will be good for my future." Then leave, don't listen to what she has to say, don't stop and do shit, just leave and go find a better women using all that confidence you gained from the situation.

That is how I wish I handled my situations like the one you are in, hind sight is always 20/20 and I'm telling you what the chart says.

Yep!

The answer to drama...IS MORE DRAMA!

Way to go. And when it's all done, we're getting to grow old and die. What a beautiful waste of a life. Who needs to do something productive in your life, when you can simply keep it full of gay drama.

Jerry jerry jerry.

It's okay. In the army, it's 50% fighting, and 50% drama. Most people don't know that.

r

 

[SaladFork]

like a dozen red heads. He's scared of clowns now.

 

[samoth]

then let her be. it's her life. you don't own her. you are voting your displeasure of how she is by REMOVING her from her life. If you meet someone on the street you don't like - you simply smile and walk away right?

If someone isn't compatible with you - why is it their fault? You move on and find someone who is. Don't like your job? Quit and find another one. You don't change the corporation to fit your job requirements.

You're not 17. You should've figured this shit out by now.

You can't change people. Say that 100x, then drop and give me 20.

r

I'm kinda with RG here.

 

[needtogetarmy]

I want to know how this meeting went.

I bet Chesty is still with this whore.

IMO Smurfy made the best comment.

 

[Razorguns]

say u have 5 failed relationships in a row.

what do they all have in common?

you.

so figure out what the weakest link is there.

btw chesty: what interesting have you done in your life this week - or just dwell on your drama from morning to night?

r

 

[Stefka]

Calling her out might make you feel better.
But telling her you were falling in love with her and reading her whatever it is that you wrote for her won't make her feel bad.
And she'll probably be able to rationalize her cheating and turn you into the bad guy in her mind.
You're not going to win here.
You're not going to make her a better person.
You're probably not even going to hurt her.
You should just walk away.

 

[jack sparrow]

Calling her out might make you feel better.
But telling her you were falling in love with her and reading her whatever it is that you wrote for her won't make her feel bad.
And she'll probably be able to rationalize her cheating and turn you into the bad guy in her mind.
You're not going to win here.
You're not going to make her a better person.
You're probably not even going to hurt her.
You should just walk away.

^^This reeks of the truth.

Who's helping you over there Stefka?

 

[Stefka]

^^This reeks of the truth.

Who's helping you over there Stefka?

I just have lots of experience with this crap.

 

[jack sparrow]

I just have lots of experience with this crap.

Me too. I never had any success at trying to make sense of things. Just walk away and bang a stripper, I say.

btw..when are we going to the strip club?

 

[Sub-Zero]

its funny how she is the one calling you insecure and trying to make you feel like the psychotic one...

anyway, if she had feelings the situation wouldnt be there in the first place...so "tricking her" into caring isnt gunna happen. shes playin both yall.

either walk away, or play dumb, and slowly detatch yourself... bang like u want, be who u want, dont cater to her bullshit, look for someone else, etc...without telling her so. let her figure it out on her own sort of how you had to, and use her for the pussy.

thatyl show her more than presenting her with emails, telling her u love her, and other stupid sappy bullshit

 

[EnderJE]

then let her be. it's her life. you don't own her. you are voting your displeasure of how she is by REMOVING her from her life. If you meet someone on the street you don't like - you simply smile and walk away right?

If someone isn't compatible with you - why is it their fault? You move on and find someone who is. Don't like your job? Quit and find another one. You don't change the corporation to fit your job requirements.

You're not 17. You should've figured this shit out by now.

You can't change people. Say that 100x, then drop and give me 20.

r

...

 

[jnevin]

Heatholer's got nuffin' on Chesty.

 

[jack sparrow]

Heatholer's got nuffin' on Chesty.

lmao...I was thinking the same thing earlier.