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W6, you are the man!! I totally agree with you.
Rough times are just a part of the recipe in a relationship. If every time HE or your relationship goes through a tough time he will resort to another girl. What kind of a commitment is that?
I realize that we become very short and aggressive when dieting its just a "side effect" if you will of the dieting process BUT to resort to "talk" to another person is a whole other issue. You can always talk to other people, females and males if all you want is someone's opinion or another perspective. This sounds like he's trying to get to know her before he makes his final decision of who he wants to stay with.
I for one, would cut him loose. I now this sounds easier said than done. But,we women are just tooooooooo tolerant. Realtionships are a testing of boundaries to see which ones can be crossed, just like kids test their parents. You have to put your foot down.
I know this sounds mean, and it sound like I'm a BITCH, but you have to have some pride and confidence in yourself. I'm older than most you girls here and believe me if you put up with it once you will have to put up with it again and again.
Many yeas ago I was in a physically abusive relationship the first time he hit me, after 8 years of marriage, he said he just lost control, and cried and swore he would never do it again. So against my better judgement I stayed, needless to stay that after that it would happen again and again not all the time but enough until I finally left him 1 year and 2 months later. Had I not tolerated that the FIRST time it would have never happened again. That's just like the men who cheat. If you forgive it once you'll have to forgive it over and over because they know there is NO consequence for the lack of control or misbehavior, SO what's to stop them from doing it again. NOTHING
I know I'm taking this topic to another level but you have to have perspective, you have to be able to see the signs and see ahead of what you are setting yourself UP for.
Why would you even consent to moving out? What kind of tough times are we talking about to justify you moving out? You say you've been having problems for 3 weeks and he NOW confesses that he's been talking to a girl for 1 week. Sounds very convenient he confesses to you after you had already moved out. So had you NOT moved out when was he planning to tell you that he was talking to another girl while you were still living with him? OR would he have even told you? Something else is going ON that you haven't really mentioned.
Just my .02 worth.
Rough times are just a part of the recipe in a relationship. If every time HE or your relationship goes through a tough time he will resort to another girl. What kind of a commitment is that?
I realize that we become very short and aggressive when dieting its just a "side effect" if you will of the dieting process BUT to resort to "talk" to another person is a whole other issue. You can always talk to other people, females and males if all you want is someone's opinion or another perspective. This sounds like he's trying to get to know her before he makes his final decision of who he wants to stay with.
I for one, would cut him loose. I now this sounds easier said than done. But,we women are just tooooooooo tolerant. Realtionships are a testing of boundaries to see which ones can be crossed, just like kids test their parents. You have to put your foot down.
I know this sounds mean, and it sound like I'm a BITCH, but you have to have some pride and confidence in yourself. I'm older than most you girls here and believe me if you put up with it once you will have to put up with it again and again.
Many yeas ago I was in a physically abusive relationship the first time he hit me, after 8 years of marriage, he said he just lost control, and cried and swore he would never do it again. So against my better judgement I stayed, needless to stay that after that it would happen again and again not all the time but enough until I finally left him 1 year and 2 months later. Had I not tolerated that the FIRST time it would have never happened again. That's just like the men who cheat. If you forgive it once you'll have to forgive it over and over because they know there is NO consequence for the lack of control or misbehavior, SO what's to stop them from doing it again. NOTHING
I know I'm taking this topic to another level but you have to have perspective, you have to be able to see the signs and see ahead of what you are setting yourself UP for.
Why would you even consent to moving out? What kind of tough times are we talking about to justify you moving out? You say you've been having problems for 3 weeks and he NOW confesses that he's been talking to a girl for 1 week. Sounds very convenient he confesses to you after you had already moved out. So had you NOT moved out when was he planning to tell you that he was talking to another girl while you were still living with him? OR would he have even told you? Something else is going ON that you haven't really mentioned.
Just my .02 worth.
