The whole idea behind the lingerie bit is that you're supposedly paying for the lingerie modeling, not the sex. At least that's what the business will claim to the authorities.
Apples to oranges. This was a strictly no-touch service, and I was probably being presumptuous when I assumed she'd have gotten down and dirty for more money. Heat of the moment fantasy, like "wow, that stripper really liked me for me!"
Dial_tone said:
No, we're paying for the advice they give us about our spouses...consider them psychiatrists.