Bdsm???

[heatherrae]

maybe he wanted you to stick the quarter up his rear... thats why he got so mad about it.

ummmm...

yeah...

I think I'm just a vanilla type of girl.

I don't need all this fancy stuff to stay interested...lol.

 

[SpyWizard]

Oh really? So, what is it like? I guess it depends on the couple? I really think I would rather be the one beating the crap out of someone...lol.

it's not about beating the crap out of someone..

and i'm a switch.. you can guess what that means..

most alpha males would love to not have to make decisions, and to release control, that's what it's about..

"beating the crap out of someone is not the turn on"

 

[velvett]

i absolutely do not like it at all. not one bit. i was this one girl who wanted me to be real rough with her. i thought she meant a little booty smackin and a little hair pullin but she wanted me to practically beat her. she wanted me to attack her and shit like that. i just couldt do it. i dont even like to play fight. someone always gets hurt and usually it isnt me and i feel like shit it happened. i am also not into being the one getting their ass kicked either. im a more sensual type than that.

That's not normal, and I'd say that's one step beyond S&M.

 

[velvett]

So, I found out that the bf I had in Texas is into BDSM. WTF? I didn't know. I dug him, but evidently he would like to have tied me up etc. in the sack. LOL. Which got me thinking, I don't even know the proper role of the submissive in that sort of relationship during that sort of thing. I mean, is the submissive supposed to act like they are fighting to get free? act like they like it? act like they hate it? just lie there like a dead trout on the 5th of July?



Screw that noise.

Have you ever role played?

 

[heatherrae]

it's not about beating the crap out of someone..

and i'm a switch.. you can guess what that means..

most alpha males would love to not have to make decisions, and to release control, that's what it's about..

"beating the crap out of someone is not the turn on"

Oh, I don't know. I guess the whole thing is just a bit scary to me. I get worried about the psychology of why someone would like to humiliate someone else. I'm really not into that sort of thing. Then I worry about the psychology of wanting to dominate a female and whether they actually enjoy feeling superior to the woman or genuinely feel women are inferior, etc.

???

 

[javaguru]

Trust me. I don't need attention from you noodlekegs. I couldn't care less about men these days. As a matter of fact, I think I'm going to just become a lesbo and cut men out of the equation all together.

(Haven't you heard that I hate men?)

The feeling is mutual.

 

[nefertiti]

i absolutely do not like it at all. not one bit. i was this one girl who wanted me to be real rough with her. i thought she meant a little booty smackin and a little hair pullin but she wanted me to practically beat her. she wanted me to attack her and shit like that. i just couldt do it. i dont even like to play fight. someone always gets hurt and usually it isnt me and i feel like shit it happened. i am also not into being the one getting their ass kicked either. im a more sensual type than that.

That's not bdsm...that's nuts. There's a motto that lifestylers use....safe, SANE, and consentual. (and no, I'm not a lifestyler)

As Spy said....it may seem to the uninformed that the sub is serving the dom...but it's the opposite.

 

[jerseyrugger76]

A little light bondage and S&M can be fun every once in a while. You know, it's kinda like going out for, I dunno, Ethiopian food. Something you do every once in a blue moon, just for the hell of it, and then it's back to normal.

 

[velvett]

Oh, I don't know. I guess the whole thing is just a bit scary to me. I get worried about the psychology of why someone would like to humiliate someone else. I'm really not into that sort of thing. Then I worry about the psychology of wanting to dominate a female and whether they actually enjoy feeling superior to the woman or genuinely feel women are inferior, etc.

???

That's not BDSM.

Do some reading about BDSM it covers a lot of different activities and submissive/dominant applied to both men and women.

 

[rnch]

He wanted to whip you so bad for not making the bed.

also for not making him breakfast....