back rub or boobs?

[Island Son]

point taken, but it didn't mean anything. i am use to being harrassed though about my body, people will take my seat and be like you can't have it back unless you flash me.

You seem to get no respect then.
yup. Potentially future talent.

 

[Warik]

You seem to get no respect then.
yup. Potentially future talent.

lol

 

[daised]

You seem to get no respect then.
yup. Potentially future talent.

well all my friends are guys who don't get any b/c all they care about is smoking pot, so they like my body and like to see me show it off. puc bet me 1000 dollars that sometime in my life i will be a stripper, i am such an exibitionist.

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

would u let them run a train on u?

 

[satanic goatslayer]

I would like to know as well.

 

[Puc]

Since when does sex equate to love?

In my mind, it doesn't. Never has.

I see loving someone as caring about their happiness more than your own. I see it as caring about them as a person to the point where your own insecurities take a back seat.

I care about her, I care about her to the point where I want her to date other people? Why? Because that is what is natural to do at her point in life. She needs to have the experiences that others her age do have.

Does it make me insecure to hear about Ryan feeling her up? You bet your ass it does. It hurts, bad. But it does not hurt near so much as her lying to me and me discovering it later. It does not hurt near as much as it would to have her come to me in ten years and say she doesn't want to be with me anymore because she still needs to experience life and a variety of different people(boys).

It doesn't hurt near as much as the resent I would deserve for robbing her of her adolescence.

I want daised to decide to be with me or not. I want her to make that decision honestly, intelligently, and without regret. How can this be accomplished if I throttle her at 16?

 

[supersizeme]

Puc, following your logic it's like saying ok I'd rather just stick my hand in this blender than jump headfirst into that mulcher a little further down the road.

What are you doing dating a chick who let's other guys feel her tits and then here she is posting it up for you to see?? This is not normal. This is what I like to refer to as..."fucked up." Things which are "fucked up" generally are bad for one's own sanity. It's good to stay away from these things, even if they do possess a vagina. Sometimes, especially if they have a vagina. It can double the effects on your mental health. Good luck with this one. Let me know where you found her so I can stay away from that place in my pursuit of continued mental stability.

 

[Puc]

sanity has never been my strongsuit, anyway.

First, I really don't know why she posted it here, except because she wanted to make me jealous. Please reference my initial response to this thread.

Secondly, ss, your analogy is extreme. It is a risk/reward decision that I have made, that is all...

 

[supersizeme]

i gotcha. what is your reward...do you want to marry this girl? is she 16 years old?

 

[Puc]

she is 17... (we started dating when she was 16 (age of consent is 16, fyi))

she is the only girl I have ever known who I could see myself with forever... marriage is something that should be broached much later on. Neither of us are ready for that right now...